So, if you're no longer friends with someone who was a guest at your wedding...

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:22 PM

So, if you're no longer friends with someone who was a guest at your wedding...

...what do you do about a TY card?

I cut ties with someone back in December. Someone who was my friend since high school but turned kinda weird and borderline toxic.

So I send one?

What do I write?

'Thanks for not being in a lot of the professional photos; it was easy to weed yo' @ss out of them that way'

little j Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:23 PM

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did they give a substantial gift? if you really never want to talk to this person again, i probably wouldnt send a TY

unless the gift was like amazzzing

halfbaked Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:24 PM

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

'Thanks for not being in a lot of the professional photos; it was easy to weed yo' @ss out of them that way'

Nope, I wouldn't send one.

MrsSx2 Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:26 PM

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Nopeeeeeeeeessss!

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:28 PM

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I might add that the person is a single guy who probably knows diddly about wedding etiquette anyway...

looks like I'm saving my 44 cents.

Future Mrs H Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:28 PM

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I wouldnt bother

Rosalind_75 Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:31 PM

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hell to the no!!

save your 44centssssssssss

barbtony Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:35 PM

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Posted by Future Mrs H

I wouldnt bother

This

AngnShaun Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:37 PM

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if he gave a gift i would...

id just write

thanks!

BriansWifey Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:37 PM

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I didn't send a TY card to those people...

Clover23 Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:38 PM

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i would definitely send one, it's rude not to. RUDE!!!!! YOU WILL GO TO HELL!!!!

MikesBride2B Posted: Mar 11, 2011 06:34 PM

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Posted by Clover23

i would definitely send one, it's rude not to. RUDE!!!!! YOU WILL GO TO HELL!!!!

SHE'S SO RIGHT...ON JUDGEMENT DAY YOU WILL BE THROWN DOWN INTO THE FIREY PIT!

CloudNine Posted: Mar 12, 2011 07:30 AM

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

'Thanks for not being in a lot of the professional photos; it was easy to weed yo' @ss out of them that way'

i think this wording sounds perfect!

soontobecruz Posted: Mar 12, 2011 08:53 AM

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I had 2 cards I had to send and was not happy about. I didn't even want to open the lines of communication again. I sent them anyway. They came and gave a gift. Luckily I haven't heard from either of them since sending them.

flibbertigibbet Posted: Mar 12, 2011 11:34 AM

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Be the bigger person. Send a thank you.

Ivansgirl Posted: Mar 12, 2011 12:23 PM

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Posted by flibbertigibbet

Be the bigger person. Send a thank you.

ITA Do the right thing and send one

flibbertigibbet Posted: Mar 12, 2011 12:25 PM

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The way I see it...

it's only 44 cents to send a car and how long could it possibly take to write it? a minute?

walk away from things completely knowing that you did everything right and they are a loser.

Byrne2Be Posted: Mar 12, 2011 12:43 PM

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Posted by flibbertigibbet

The way I see it...

it's only 44 cents to send a car and how long could it possibly take to write it? a minute?

walk away from things completely knowing that you did everything right and they are a loser.

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