So many questions ,I think I have come to the right place!!!!

I have been married for a little over two weeks now (yeah me!!!). I was wondering.... do any of you worry even more about DH? I worry about myself, DH, our health, future children.... I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that I lost my mom over five years ago. I saw what my dad went through and it is so scary(sorry to be morbid). I look at all the positives (I found the love of my life) but I am still always worried!!! Am I crazy? Can anyone relate?

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I think that's all normal!!!
It's like an added responsibility for both of you now - a new phase of life!
I know i feel a bit older ( ) knowing i'm in this new stage of my life!!

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I'd have to say yes, I am more concerned because now he is my responsibility and I am his. I try to cook good and we take care of each other when we're sick.

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I also lost my mom , that was 10 years ago, and there is not a day that goes by that I do not think of her, I miss her so much, there is nothing like a Mom. I also miss my dad so much he died 3 years ago. I can completely relate. I think the wedding and all the planning also brings up the fact and hits home that your Mom and in my case Dad were not there for my big day. I remember when my Mom passed my dad was a wreck and never the same, I also look at Dh sometimes and think I would never want to lose him ever. I also had the same issues right after the wedding. Cheerish every day you have with DH.

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I have had similar feelings. I lost my dad suddenly 4 years ago. It was so devastating that I see myself just wanting to hold on to my DH and never let him go. I fear losing him and even feel the same way with my cat. I fear losing more people that I love most in the world.

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I just mentioned this morning to my DH that he needs to go for a physical. You know men, they never want to go to the doctors. Heart disease is big in his family. He is a smoker too, which worries me. His father passed away when my DH was 18. I worry about his health all the time!

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I am so panicky...with fh, he says he went for a pshysical, but I don't believe it was a through examination. I plan on taking him to my doc, but he does not know yet. I have to keep it a secret!!!!!

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I worry about my DH all the time especially when he goes to work. The last things I always say to him on the phone when he is at work at night are I Love You & Stay Safe.

Since I work in the Dr office I make the physical appts for both of us & just tell him when to be there.

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i have always worried about my dh because of what he does for a living but i have to admit it became worse after we became engaged. i think that its even worst then before now that we are married