Someone, an ex-friend, almost relative, found our link to our pro-pics and I heard through the grapevine that she has been talking smack!
She said that I looked like a cow on my wedding day and someone should have told me that plus size girls shouldn't wear strapless gowns! Then she had the nerve to throw digs about my girls in my BP as well!! This coming from someone who is plus size herself and butt ugly!
As if I wasn't self conscious enough about how I looked on my wedding day, now I had to hear this? I am so upset!
When DH and I were 1st together I was very thin and now, 9 years later I have gained weight and its a very sensitive subject with me!!
I need some hugs!
bonniejd
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Clearly this person is so unhappy with herself that she feels the need to belittle you. I think you looked beautiful on your wedding day and as long as you had a wonderful day and felt wonderful, then she has nothing on you! You are the one who got to stand up there in that dress she is picking on and marry the love of your life. I am sure she is just jealous!
LB and DC
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how dare they! you look amazing, you looked amazing on your wedding day, and this person should be beaten for saying those terrible things!
some people have nothing better to do that be rude a$$holes. i am so sorry you heard all that but you MUST know it isn't true!!
ostrichhh
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what a horrible b*tch. take solace in the fact that she is obvioiusly a deeply insecure and jealous person who is envious of your happiness. talking crap about you is her way of making herself feel better. and shame on the person for telling you the horrid things she said!! you looked beautfiful on your wedding day and thats all there is to it.
MrsPags
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Sometimes I just don't get people!!!!! Pay no mind- really their own insecurity that they need to try to take away from your happiness!
I have people say things behind my back as well since the few months before the wedding I put on a few pounds- nevermind the fact that I had a back injury and herniated 3 discs and could barely move
HamptonsBride
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you were a beautiful bride!! Don't let a jealous, unhappy, miserable person ruin it for you!! There are always people like that in this world...best thing to do is ignore them!
MrsQ-in2007
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Seriously, you looked BEAUTIFUL on your wedding day - these are just hateful comments from someone who is a sh*t and probably envious of your beautiful wedding and how you looked. I wasn't exactly rail thin at my wedding day and I felt like I would have looked tons better if I was much thinner, but we are how we are and we are still beautiful!
It's hard to hear hateful comments and to ignore them, but TRY and KNOW THAT YOU LOOKED WONDERFUL on your wedding day. Such a hateful biatch that woman! Ugh, I HATE people like that!!!
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Posted by HamptonsBride
you were a beautiful bride!! Don't let a jealous, unhappy, miserable person ruin it for you!! There are always people like that in this world...best thing to do is ignore them!
Well said!!!!! I agree 100%, Your Dress looked STUNNING on you!!!!!
PattyK
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That s@#%@!! In my opinion, this person is jealous of your happiness and wants to put you down, so she feels better about herself.
PegaLega
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********! Ignore what people say! Her jealousy and obvious insecurity is so obvious its ridiculous! Brides are beautiful no matter what shape, size, dress, m/u, hairstyle~ that doesnt matter-no matter what you looked beautiful! Just ignore it!
ETA:There is always going to be someone who is going to have Not nice things to say
Regal Beagle
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OMG!!!!!
You looked gorgeous and people are just hatters. What's the matter.....she jealous because she is unhappy???????
I HATE people like that. I am so sorry!!!!
Brian and Marie
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I'm so sorry that you had to hear that nonsense!! You looked beautiful on your day!! She is obviously a very insecure, unhappy person!! Please pay no mind to her!!!
Ericab1980
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girl you looked great on your day!
Sara_Sage
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I hate people like that! They just enjoy making people feel bad about themselves. You looked AMAZING on your day. It's not about what they think, it's all about what you think babe.
diva7531
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What a B!atch!!!!!! Don't listen to what other people say. I am sensitive too, but my motto is if I am THAT sensitive I should do something about it, but alas I am too lazy!
In my opinion, people who talk like that are jealous, try not to pay any mind to what small minded people say
dancerandchef
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You looked very beautiful on your wedding day!!! This person has too much time on her hands and does not know what to do with all this free time. She should find a hobby.
~dancer and chef~ charlotte and michael
B22
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I know this is easier said than done... but if *I* were you... i would feel sorry for her.
people that *talk smack* about others have NO SELF ESTEEM.
she hates herself. trust me.
you looked gorgeous on your wedding day
f*ck that c*nt.
AllJoy
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You look gorgeous and were a beautiful bride. Just ignore that witch. Just remember, those people aren't worth your emotions.
Tobewed07
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Thanks ladies!! You girls are the best and right! It just hurts when someone hits upon something that you are very sensitive about...It was like my worst fear came true, you know....I know she is just mean and nasty, she always has been and always will be, hence the reason we are no longer friends!
portjeffbride
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yeah, you know what this is? It's another one of those people who turn evil when they witness anyone else's happiness.....
anyone who starts talking cr@p about someone's wedding has issues with relationships and self-esteem, not with the couple
don't listen to her... you know your wedding was gorgeous, you were gorgeous, and it was a wonderful day..... she was just green with envy.
