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Someone said some very nasty things.....

Original post by Tobewed07

Someone, an ex-friend, almost relative, found our link to our pro-pics and I heard through the grapevine that she has been talking smack!

She said that I looked like a cow on my wedding day and someone should have told me that plus size girls shouldn't wear strapless gowns! Then she had the nerve to throw digs about my girls in my BP as well!! This coming from someone who is plus size herself and butt ugly!

As if I wasn't self conscious enough about how I looked on my wedding day, now I had to hear this? I am so upset!

When DH and I were 1st together I was very thin and now, 9 years later I have gained weight and its a very sensitive subject with me!!

I need some hugs!

nycerika318 Posted:

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That is very not nice of her... she is obviously jealous of you and probably unhappy in her own skin. It looks like you had an amazing wedding day in a dress that you loved and looked beautiful in. Ignore her!

Aug07OFCbride Posted:

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first of all, how incredibly rude and mean. she needs to be mindful that what you put out is what comes back to you! second of all, you were a BEAUTIFUL bride and I think you look fantastic in your pics!!!!!!

futuremrsGafforio Posted:

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Don't let it get to you, she is just jealous!!!
Mooshyboo Posted:

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OMGGGGGG ~ this person seems jealous she was not in your BP.... I am sorry ~ don't let someone like this get to you ~ you were a GORGEOUS bride ~ don't let someone who has no class talk Cr*p about you...
aimes1313 Posted:

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It's hard to do when you're feeling self consious, but just remind yourself that she's an ex-friend and her opinion doesn't count anymore. And the next time someone tries to tell you what she said about you stop them and tell them you don't want to hear it because you don't care.

TnOiOnL Posted:

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F HER!
I believe people get sh!t back tenfold so let that keep your mind at ease. Is this b!tch married? If not, she'll understand when & IF she's a bride...

you looked amazing, dont even think twice about this crap!!!!
Nina_m74 Posted:

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You looked gorgeous on your wedding day!!!! Like the PPs said she is insecure and upset with herself and tries to make herself feel better by tearing people down who she sees as better or happier than herself. Don't let it get to you!



carolinebr Posted:

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Posted by Tobewed07



She said that I looked like a cow on my wedding day and someone should have told me that plus size girls shouldn't wear strapless gowns! Then she had the nerve to throw digs about my girls in my BP as well!! This coming from someone who is plus size herself and butt ugly!





Just out of curiosity, who is the person who TOLD you she said this. Perhaps they should have kept their mouth shut.



And you looked great by the way. I love your pictures.
Tobewed07 Posted:

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Posted by carolinebr


Posted by Tobewed07



She said that I looked like a cow on my wedding day and someone should have told me that plus size girls shouldn't wear strapless gowns! Then she had the nerve to throw digs about my girls in my BP as well!! This coming from someone who is plus size herself and butt ugly!





Just out of curiosity, who is the person who TOLD you she said this. Perhaps they should have kept their mouth shut.





Another friend! I know they should have not said anything, but they did and now I know.
B22 Posted:

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Posted by Tobewed07


Posted by carolinebr


Posted by Tobewed07



She said that I looked like a cow on my wedding day and someone should have told me that plus size girls shouldn't wear strapless gowns! Then she had the nerve to throw digs about my girls in my BP as well!! This coming from someone who is plus size herself and butt ugly!





Just out of curiosity, who is the person who TOLD you she said this. Perhaps they should have kept their mouth shut.





Another friend! I know they should have not said anything, but they did and now I know.



thats what I dont understand... why people feel the need to tell someone something that has NO BEARING on their well being... which will do nothing but HURT that person.

I would rather not know such cr*p. im sorry you ar e going through this.
staceylacey Posted:

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SCREW EM.........who the heck cares what she says. You look great

ChrisnAmy Posted:

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That was hurtful thing she said!
Sorry!

Whats her name.....we can go kick her @$$ if you want us to!
MeNBobs Posted:

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You were a beautiful bride for anyone to say any different is a LIAR!!!!!!
That other person is nasty. It's sad when people can only feel better about themselves when they are trying to make others as miserable as them. I'm sorry her awful words even made it back to you.You and your DH look great in every photo and most importantly happy, a feeling I'm sure Miss.Nasty is not familiar with!!
StarryEyedBride Posted:

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OMG what an awful person!

Don't pay this person a second thought... it's jealousy because you are beautiful and happily married! Don't let that person take one single second of your happiness away just because they have insecurities that make them lash out at others to feel good about themselves...

for you!

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