Sorta related to my post on NWR about my parents maybe-divorce. .. what I learned
Just wanted to get this out.... DEEP stuff
Ok.. my Dad REALLY screwed up. He was caught making too many cellphone calls to the neighbor. Now he's just stupid cause he though that calling her instead of seeing her face to face was a solution to all the rumors that the two were an 'item'. They weren't an item but they live in a very small town that talks.
Now my mom (stepmonster) told him to talk to the neighbor. She expected him to do it in person. My father, however, played it safe by calling. But the bill was so large and there was so 'many' calls (retrys 5 mins apart, you know 1min calls).
So she's ticked off (and I agree) and he's like 'huh?'.
They called me. I ended up talking them both down a bit in werid ways. Ya know what I learned.
Sometimes you really can't say you love eachother enough. No matter what the situtation is. Dad wouldnt admit he didn't want her to go (she was packing to move back to Texas) and she couldn't admit she was hurt from what he did.
It seemed so simple from where I am so far away and so unattached. But it made me think. Sometimes when Im angry I know I get sorta wrapped up in it and don't want to hear 'im sorry' or 'I love you' or anything. I guess it's easy to forget you're angry cause you hurt and you love him so much it hurts more.
*Shrug* anyway. Thought I'd share that insight.
Sure hope they figure it out. I think i left them on the right path but as always......
it's up to them.
Ok.. my Dad REALLY screwed up. He was caught making too many cellphone calls to the neighbor. Now he's just stupid cause he though that calling her instead of seeing her face to face was a solution to all the rumors that the two were an 'item'. They weren't an item but they live in a very small town that talks.
Now my mom (stepmonster) told him to talk to the neighbor. She expected him to do it in person. My father, however, played it safe by calling. But the bill was so large and there was so 'many' calls (retrys 5 mins apart, you know 1min calls).
So she's ticked off (and I agree) and he's like 'huh?'.
They called me. I ended up talking them both down a bit in werid ways. Ya know what I learned.
Sometimes you really can't say you love eachother enough. No matter what the situtation is. Dad wouldnt admit he didn't want her to go (she was packing to move back to Texas) and she couldn't admit she was hurt from what he did.
It seemed so simple from where I am so far away and so unattached. But it made me think. Sometimes when Im angry I know I get sorta wrapped up in it and don't want to hear 'im sorry' or 'I love you' or anything. I guess it's easy to forget you're angry cause you hurt and you love him so much it hurts more.
*Shrug* anyway. Thought I'd share that insight.
Sure hope they figure it out. I think i left them on the right path but as always......
it's up to them.
