spinoff to dh liking friends...which friends do you hang out with more

We always hang out with my friends, never ever with his friends, but then again he doesnt really hang out with his friends either, maybe a few times a year to play baseball and thats it. Really dont like that its always my friends but anyway....

what about you guys, is it mostly you and dh with your original friends or his (like not mutual that you both met together)

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It's pretty much 50/50

Re: spinoff to dh liking friends...which friends do you hang out with more

more my friends than his

Re: spinoff to dh liking friends...which friends do you hang out with more

Hmmm I'd say it's pretty equal.

Re: spinoff to dh liking friends...which friends do you hang out with more

more mine than his.

Re: spinoff to dh liking friends...which friends do you hang out with more

def more his than mine. i don't mind honestly. is that mean? lol. idk..maybe its just that we hung out with his friends so much over the years that they eventually just became my best friends too so it just feels more natural at this point. they're all girls lol. dh has only a few guy friends. my friends are more busy and on different schedules,so its hard to get together often.

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I feel like all our friends are mutual friends, but then again, we have been friends since we were 14, so it has always been one big group.

Re: spinoff to dh liking friends...which friends do you hang out with more

ehh mutual friends really. we've known eachother forever and his closest friends were my friends b4 i even met fh. i actually dated one of our best friends when i was like 16. lol so, hanging with 'his' friends isnt a big deal cuz theyre my friends, too. but they are guys so he kinda takes responsibility for them...if that makes sense? lol

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I guess my friends.....although after dating for 10 years they are mutual friends.

Re: spinoff to dh liking friends...which friends do you hang out with more

we hang out with a lot of his friends from work.

all of my 'original' friends are 700 miles away

otherwise it's all people we've met through LIW, or neighbors....

Re: spinoff to dh liking friends...which friends do you hang out with more

we dont have a separate set of friends all of my friends are his and all of his friends are mine also... we have a lot of friends that became couples themselves...

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DH doesn't have many friends that aren't also my friends...any friends that are just his are back in Ohio (and even there he really didn't have many/any).

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We hang out with more my friends then his I guess but he doesn't have many friends. Mostly we hand out with his sister and her husband. We met through DH's sister's husband so it's really even there, and all the friends in that group have been friends with both of us for YEARS so I guess we mostly hang out with our friends, otherwise it's usually my friends.

Re: spinoff to dh liking friends...which friends do you hang out with more

We spend all of our time hanging out with his friends. As I said in the other post, my friends are all married & have children, DHs friends are all still single so DH still enjoys hanging out with the guys. We do have some mutual friends who are newlyweds liks us.

Re: spinoff to dh liking friends...which friends do you hang out with more

Everyone is our friends now. The girls I knew before DH are all on seperate paths than from what I am on (buying houses, having baby #1 and #2) so we dont see or speak to each other as often.