Spinoff to Exes!

Anyone have a really crazy ex that you know you will NEVER EVER speak to again no matter what the circumstance is?

I'm bored. Sorry lol.



I did. His family was supposed to move right when I met him, he chose to stay because he didn't want to 'leave me'. Things were great, then they got worse. He was very very manipulative. He was VERY jealous of any guy (or girl) that spoke to me. He lived with me, in my parents house, for free, btw.

I found out he slept with 2 of my friends and his boss (EW). As soon as he moved, I thought it would be easy to break this off, but I couldn't. I finally did when I found out another close friend of mine slept with him. That was enough.

I then (stupid me) go down to where he lived months later. We were talking online (again, I don't know why ) I stayed for a week - towards the end the fighting and the hurtful words came back. Not to long after that, I met DH, but I wasn't sure. I went back down to where ex lived, stayed a DAY, then drove back up right away because all I could think about was DH (We had kissed but nothing was official).

I came up and told DH everything, he wasn't mad nor disappointed, so I stayed with him. Ex tried to remain friends, but I had my last straw when he said to me 'Can you not post pictures of you and him? I can't bare to see them'.

I told him he was a total hypocrit, since it was him that said he didn't see me 'that way anymore. So I said goodbye, casually, and he proceeded to send emails upon emails until DH got involved and told him to leave him alone. (I didn't ask DH to do it, DH asked for his phone number and said he'd take care of it, he didn't threatened him or curse).

Right after I got engaged, the emails came back - and it was the weirdest thing ever...it was the SAME email over and over. I read it once, and it went from 'how much he missed me and why' and then ended with why we don't belong together..... He sent the same email once a month.

I ignored it for close to a year. Right before my wedding, I had had enough and told DH, showing him my trash box in my email, telling him I ignored it and NEVER responded. DH told me I should respond with a sentence, telling him to stop or we could get a restraining order. So I did, and I never heard from the guy again.

Just recently,DH and I went to the Islanders/Rangers game at MSG on December 27th, and I walked right past my ex, and we made eye contact, I quickly overted my eyes and kept walking like I didn't even know who he was. My stomach was a little unstable, but I was so glad my DH was with me. I told him right away (I was going to the restroom) and DH then put his arm around me and said 'Don't worry about it, I dare him to come say hi to you'.

While that sounds comforting I don't like fighting. I certainly hoped that for the rest of the night we never crossed paths again.

He was a real looney. And he said I had mental problems.

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Definitely- mine was very controlling and never let me do a thing on my own (including have a credit card that he didnt monitor ). It ended really badly.

not to mention- When I was dating him he was friends with DH. Lots of drama there!!

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Yes...he treated me like crap the entire relationship and when we broke up he called me a kike...it was the most horrible thing...

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I did he cheated on me with five girls that I know of I called them the fabulous five. I was young and stupid and believed everything he said. Even his friends were trying to warn me and I just didn't see it. He was very controlling. He would say graphic horrible things about wishing I died when I did get the balls to go out with girlfriends. He was 20 when we broke up he got a 15 year old pregnant and now has a daughter. Everyday I am glad that wasn't me that got trapped in the situation. I hope he treats her and his daughter better though.

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My ex bf was so upset after our breakup that he got too crazy and dangerous. he started to stalk everything about me until one day my boss received an email from him with semi nude pictures of me he had taken on a trip to Puerto Rico...and asked my boss for ME to stop stalking HIM....that pushed me over the edge. I had to get a restraining order with the police, have IT at work block all emails from him ever arriving to work, and thank God my boss was understandable but it was just soooo embarrassing. I couldnt stay out late for 3 weeks and I had to change my route to work. This guy was obsessed! This was back in 2004..

I never heard from him again in 6 years....until a week before the wedding he emailed me at my personal email and congratulated me on my upcoming wedding 'on 08-28-2010'....so he made contact with me 6 years later! Apparently, he had heard I got a new bf and got engaged, and looked me up in the registry. He sent a gift. This guy is such a creep, what was I thinking not fully knowing who he was--we dated for 5 months.. PSYCHO NUTS!

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Posted by luckycouple05

My ex bf was so upset after our breakup that he got too crazy and dangerous. he started to stalk everything about me until one day my boss received an email from him with semi nude pictures of me he had taken on a trip to Puerto Rico...and asked my boss for ME to stop stalking HIM....that pushed me over the edge. I had to get a restraining order with the police, have IT at work block all emails from him ever arriving to work, and thank God my boss was understandable but it was just soooo embarrassing. I couldnt stay out late for 3 weeks and I had to change my route to work. This guy was obsessed! This was back in 2004..

I never heard from him again in 6 years....until a week before the wedding he emailed me at my personal email and congratulated me on my upcoming wedding 'on 08-28-2010'....so he made contact with me 6 years later! Apparently, he had heard I got a new bf and got engaged, and looked me up in the registry. He sent a gift. This guy is such a creep, what was I thinking not fully knowing who he was--we dated for 5 months.. PSYCHO NUTS!

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oh my god he sent you a gift?????


that is creepy. that gave me chills. wow.

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I do! We were best friends for about 6 years and then tried dating. We were together for almost 2 years. He was my first love..I mean...I was super crazy about him. Well, towards the end of our relationship I found out that he cheated on me with 3 different girls. 3! He lives in Brookyln and I lived on LI...so we only saw each other on weekends..I didnt suspect anything. I was crushed. I did the psycho ex girlfriend thing and broke into his voicemail and emails and messed his stuff up. Then he tried sticking me with his $1300 cell phone bill (this was late 90's when there was no cell phone long distance). We had such an ugly break up. He contacted me a few years later and I pretended to act civil. But really...I HATE him. I stalk his FB awaiting his demise. He is married now...and I am sure he will cheat on her too (he has cheated on every gf he has had since me). I wont dare email or add him on FB though...so not ready for that.

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Yep...it was the first guy I had ever been serious with and he would mentally abuse me and tell me things like, 'who would love you? Look at you, no one would be interested in you. You are lucky that I am the only one who loves you.' Meanwhile, I gave him everything and all he did was cheat on me and treat me like garbage.

Normally, I would have cursed him out, but during that time my parents were going through a huge divorce and my self esteem was down in the dumps and he took full advantage of it.
It took me 4 years to get out of that mess....and an additional 2 years to get my identity back and trust in a guy again.

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Nope both my ex and DH's ex were normal and we never had any issues with them after the break ups