I never told anyone this but at our wedding..in the elevator and bridal suite..me and DH had a fight..like a screaming match..we never ever ever fought before..he got drunk and wanted to chill outside. This is why I would elope. I never had the guts to tell LIW girls because I was so ashamed. We actually cried on our HM about it...it was just so bad...
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DH and I had a fight the day after our wedding. It started b/c MIL did not say good bye to me she actually walked away from me when I told her I hyphenated my name rather then taking DHs name. Don't be ashamed. Marriage is about building a life together and in life there are arguments.
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aww dont worry!!!!!! everyone fights!!!!!!!! all that matters is that u guys r happy now!!!!
if it makes u feel any better when it was time to cut the cake at our wedding i could not find dh..he was in the photobooth and when i told him it was time to go he was like do we have to now??
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Everyone had fights....no biggie!
After DH took off the garter he put it around his forehead---you HAVE to see the dirty look I gave him. He immediately took it off.
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When we were taking pictures Dh went to hug me and pulled my veil real hard , it hurt like hell ..out of pure reaction i screamed F*K YOU. He looked at me with the death look and said 'did you just say f*k you to me on our wedding day' it hurt so bad that instead of immed being apologetic I got NASTY bc i am stubborn biznittchh, It happens , we laugh about it now. if you dont have those moments in life u r not real
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don't worry...everyone fights! dh and i got into a huge fight on the last day of our honeymoon and i just kept thinking 'this is our HONEYMOON...we are NOT supposed to be fighting like this...'
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I yelled at DH on our wedding day because he kept stepping on my dress and by the end of the night he had completely ripped out my bustle.
Oh and then we had a HUGE fight on our HM about moving into our house. We got over it by that night but it still kind of ruined a day for us.
It happens, people fight. The real sign of a healthy relationship is how you heal afterwards.........
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I agree with all the other girls. . stuff happens. . weddings are high stress. . what matters is the rest of your life and making things worse - you should have no shame girl!!!!
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Oh wow girls..you literally made my day. I have been feeling off about it since then but this made me feel normal and at ease.!
dazies1011
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DH and I actually didnt fight on our wedding but, we do everyday and we did on the HM. But that is us
Tracey1979
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Posted by FutureMrsG
DH and I had a fight the day after our wedding. It started b/c MIL did not say good bye to me she actually walked away from me when I told her I hyphenated my name rather then taking DHs name. Don't be ashamed. Marriage is about building a life together and in life there are arguments.
My mother in law didn't even speak to me at our wedding. Not once. the whole day
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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I yelled at DH walking back down the aisle and told him to slow down bc he was running down it LOL .... Im sure it got on video ... It happens to everyone.... just bc its your wedding day doesnt mean your personalities and ways of interacting with one another are going to change
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DH and I actually didnt fight on our wedding but, we do everyday and we did on the HM. But that is us
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Ditto! We just got into a fight about an hour ago....
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We hada little fight right before we were walking into the reception becuase dj came to us and asked if we were doing the chair liftss and he didnt want it and I really did.....We had arguements before about the situtation but never came to an answer....But yes I got my way and we did
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everyone fights! we do all the time, surprisingly not on our wedding day and I don't remember fighting on our HM either, which is actually a shocker lol....
but if it makes you feel better my SIL and her hubby got in a HUGE fight on the 1st day of their HM bc she packed one sandal for him and forgot to put the other one in and he started flipping out on her...LOL..... he actually LEFT and slept out on the beach that night! So of course she was soo upset and probably thinking what the hell did I do lol. She STILL talks about that, although they've been married 10 years this august with 2 kids... so it happens! lol!
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DH and I actually didnt fight on our wedding but, we do everyday and we did on the HM. But that is us
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Ditto! We just got into a fight about an hour ago....
If we dont have one fight a day somethings wrong, . We are the type to say it like it is, honesty, sometimes alittle too much but, atleast we can talk our feelings.
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My DH got drunk too, and toward the end of the night i was ready to kill him, cuz i just wanted to go back to the honeymoon suite and enjoy our wedding night and he was inviting people back to our room to keep drinking! luckily the people he invited were smart enought to realize what we shoud be doing on our wedding night and then declined the offer, otherwise we prob would have fought too!
dont stress it and dont be ashamed people fight! drunk people make fights worse!
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DH and I actually didnt fight on our wedding but, we do everyday and we did on the HM. But that is us
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Ditto! We just got into a fight about an hour ago....
Same here! Don't feel bad...me and DH fight more than we don't...my way of looking at it is that if we didn't fight, we'd feel nothing, and I'd rather feel the passion of being stirred to fight than apathy and nothing at all.
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Dont worry! DH and I had a mini fight the next day...he socialized wayyy too much...I dont even think I saw him for half the night, he was taking a gazillion pics with his friends, he was literally talking and next to the photographer the whole night ...there should be a rule of NO DRINKING for the bride and groom on the wedding day ...i wanted the day to be more abouts 'us' but DH thought we should be super social...i guess it worked out...he made up for it on the HM!
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I was getting pissed at DH since he was stepping on my dress!!! Also at the end of the night I was tired and cranky and just wanted to get out of there and I needed my flip flops so I yelled for them...not too nice of me but what can I do my feet HURT!!!
