Spinoff with poll: Do you get jealous when DH talks to His Exes?

Personally, I don't get jealous of his Exes, mainly because they're usually friends of mine too! I have, however, gotten jealous of the other girls who have tried to date him once we were together, but Adam's good about making me feel better.

Incidentally, I made one of his exes a bridesmaid in the wedding. Mistake though, because she sold us out to guy number three from my post in the other thread. Lovely girl, she is.

Dh doesn't talk to any exes. I don't either.

DH hasn't had many exes, thank goodness . There's only one ex really that he would probably still talk to, but she's been out of the picture for quite a while. It would bother me if he was in contact with her only because when he and I first started dating she would call him constantly (even though she was dating someone too, and she eventually married the guy). That kind of immaturity really pisses me off and I would be mad if DH decided to continue a friendship with this type of person.
He hasn't mentioned her in the longest time though - thank goodness!

And like Valentinegirl, I don't talk to my exes either. No need to!

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Posted by Anniegrl

And like Valentinegirl, I don't talk to my exes either. No need to!

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I wouldn't want to. That's why they are exes! My ex tried to talk to me when I met Joe but I refused. I knew he was just talking to me cause I was w/ someone else.

He hasn't had many ex's, and they were all from when he was still in HS. He doesn't talk to them at all. We've run into them together every now and again, but that's very rare.

I see my ex's every once in a blue moon since we are all still part of the same large group of friends. It all depends on who is hanging out at a specific time. He has no problem with that though, he knows I love him.

no, I don't care. There is only one ex I wouldn't want him talking to. The other two of his exes, I actually hang out with and became friends with...without him. Both came to our wedding.

I still talk to two of my exes woud also came to the wedding. He knows we are just friends.

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Posted by Valentinegirl

Dh doesn't talk to any exes. I don't either.

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Me too! I know he would be upset if I did talk to certain ones.

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Posted by Valentinegirl

Dh doesn't talk to any exes. I don't either.

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Same here.. we both cut all ties when we started dating.

He doesn't talk to his ex any more. In the beginning of our relationship, she used to call him to 'see how he was' , because prior to our relationship, she'd call and see that he was unhappy without her and it would delight her, but she stopped calling once she realized he was completely over her and happy. Beotch

Not really, but I voted 'certain exes'. His ex of 5 yrs who he lived with - they used to stay in touch - communication was always initiated by her though. As soon as he told her he was getting married though, the emails and phone calls stopped...strangely enough. She's married and has a kid and is MUCH much older than both of us. With her - it doesn't bother me.

But there was this one ex he had who we called 'Naked Girl' because she used to always walk around her place naked. He only dated her for about a month or so and never slept with her - he says because of all the naked-ness all the time, it kinda ended up turning him off.

Anyway, we ran into her at a bar once and while I went to the bathroom she came over to him and started talking to him (sure...couldn't do it while I was there!). Then she started saying that she was going to tell me that he kissed her while I was in the bathroom (or something like that). DH was like, 'If you are still here when she gets back, she's going to beat your a$$!'

Needless to say, she was a p----y and was nowhere to be found by the time I got back. DH was right btw, I was ready to beat her a s s .

My philosophy is... they're exes for a reason and the past should stay in the past.
I do not tolerate DH having anything to do with his exes and I stay away from mine also. I feel it's incredibly disrespectful and I also believe in the 'where there was fire, there will always be ashes' saying.

My DH also had an ex who would call to 'see how he was doing' regulary and I had a huge problem with it because when I know that trick! When I was younger I'd call my exes to 'say hello and see how they were doing' it was just my way of seeing if they were still single and still wanted me. Sometimes, it was because I was single and was looking to get back with them. So yet again they are exes for a reason and if you're in a relationship there is even less of a reason to have any dealings with them.