Thank You Question

MnM52607 Posted: Jul 17, 2007 04:54 PM

Thank You Question

I was in one of my best friend's bridal party in September and she was in mine. Her DH recently told her that he doesn't want to be married anymore. He needs to grow up some more.

The question is.... do we send the invite to both at their home? (Yes, they both attended) Or should we send to just her at her mom's house?

I don't want to upset her but want to do the right thing.

mrss527 Posted: Jul 17, 2007 05:04 PM

Re: Thank You Question

Hmmm...

I don't know what the official etiquette is, but my personal feeling is that as long as they're still married and living in the same house, correspondence should be sent to both of them (Mr. and Mrs.). It might be more upsetting to receive a separate note as if they were already separated...

MnM52607 Posted: Jul 18, 2007 09:02 AM

Re: Thank You Question

That's the thing... they aren't living together. They only stay there when the other one isn't.

JazzyT Posted: Jul 18, 2007 09:43 AM

Re: Thank You Question

Tough one you do not want to look insensitive to the situation by sending it Mr and Mrs and sending it to her only might be throwing salt in the wound. If she is your friend I would send it to her...this is tough