That Darn Question....

So, when are YOU going to give us more grandchildren?

So, when are YOU going to give our kids some cousins??

I WANT TO SCREAM!!

I am a pretty private person, and do not exactly like to discuss my sex life...especially with my In Laws...:

Let me be married for now...its not even a year yet...when the time comes, you will KNOW...

UGGGGGGGGGGGH

All I heard ALL weekend

My Aunt that I CANT STAND 'why are you going to wait a whole 3 years to have kids...I don't understand...don't you ant to be a mother?'

I can't stand that women ...she feels it is her business....what my husband and I choose to do

I am so glad that no one is asking me this - we have been trying for months and nothing. If someone started saying these things, I think I would just burst out and cry!

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Posted by Marcie



I am so glad that no one is asking me this - we have been trying for months and nothing. If someone started saying these things, I think I would just burst out and cry!

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babydust to you!!!

I know exactly how you feel!

1/2 year before we even had a wedding, on my birthday in december my parents took me, husband and his family out. The whole night they kept toasting our future KIDS!!! I was so angry, we weren't even married yet!

dont feel bad... the person at the cleaners asked me this past week

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Posted by lilacwine

I've been married for six weeks and I get the question nearly every day.

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i know the feeling!! soooo ridiculous!!!!

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Posted by Marcie



I am so glad that no one is asking me this - we have been trying for months and nothing. If someone started saying these things, I think I would just burst out and cry!

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See in a situation like that I would be careful to say anything to someone who just got married about kids. Who are they to ask such a question and then when you're having a hard time TTC it's worse.

I hope people don't bother you Marcie, it's hard enough TTC without having people asking you, 'SO? when are you going to have kids'

Good Luck

My MIL has been asking since we started dating It really annoys both of us - even worse is my SIL and BIL have not been able to have kids after 11 years of marriage - and it hurts her terribly when our MIL makes comments about grandchildren.

I want to be spiteful and say, never, but I know we'll have at least one

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Posted by CaCRmr

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Posted by Marcie



I am so glad that no one is asking me this - we have been trying for months and nothing. If someone started saying these things, I think I would just burst out and cry!

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See in a situation like that I would be careful to say anything to someone who just got married about kids. Who are they to ask such a question and then when you're having a hard time TTC it's worse.

I hope people don't bother you Marcie, it's hard enough TTC without having people asking you, 'SO? when are you going to have kids'

Good Luck

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Thanks!!!

Thanks!!!

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No problem

I LOVE being asked that question actually!
I think of it as a compliment to how happy you seem to others in your marriage.

I am waiting for about a year but I love to talk about baby plans.

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Posted by holly231

So, when are YOU going to give us more grandchildren?

So, when are YOU going to give our kids some cousins??

I WANT TO SCREAM!!

I am a pretty private person, and do not exactly like to discuss my sex life...especially with my In Laws...:

Let me be married for now...its not even a year yet...when the time comes, you will KNOW...

UGGGGGGGGGGGH

All I heard ALL weekend

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the best one I got today was...... get ready ladies...........


This was from a patient where I work.........

You know you have been married for over a year, maybe the next step is a fertility specialist???????????????????

Okay we are kind of trying but kind of seeing whatever happens happens... no one knows, why should it be this ladies business!!!!!!!!

WOW!! That is incredible! I cannot believe people actually have the guts to say that crap!!

We get that too. We are still undecided which I think makes people worried because I will be *gasp* 32, so they think my clock is ticking....

But.... Try the great response:

Not any time soon but we are having a great time trying!!!!

When I came back from my HM my DH's grandma touched my belly (rubbed it actually)... Yeah, she's subtle!