**Tuesday NWQOTD**

So yesterday we picked on our DH's so today we will be nice. My friend has been dating DH's friend and told me that Sunday was the first time she could see herself falling in love with him. So

When did you know you were in love with DH or what moments led to you feeling you were in love?

Well DH and I dated twice so this kind of deserves two answers.

The first time I knew I was in love with him... we were kind of sneaking around in college because we had been friends for 2 1/2 years and we both dated mutual friends who we knew would be upset. When it came out and we could be open and honest I was so relieved but had to deal with everyone else being upset. That night he came down to my room to see if I was ok and I knew then and there I loved him.

But we had a tough breakup and I didn't think I even liked him anymore let along loved him... so the second time I knew I loved him was the July before we got back together. I had been going on e-harmony and match.com dates, each worse then the one before. I was thinking of moving to NYC so I had a far radius for match.com and DH kept showing up on my list because he lived in CT and as the crows fly its closer then NYC. I couldn't believe my ex was on my list. So I started thinking about him. I went to my friend Mike's party and we were talking about Jay and I found out he had a girlfriend and burst into tears. I knew then I was still in love with him. Thankfully he and the girl broke up before my family boat trip to CT in August.

DH and I were friends long before we started dating, he actually like my friend and I liked his! lol
eventually we started hanging out alone and one thing lead to another. He swore he always had a crush on me and he def fell before i did, but we started 'talking' in november 2003 and he was leaving in mid January 2004 to work and internship in disney for 5 months. from november till the day he left we were together non stop. he actually told me he loved me some time around the end of decemeber...it wasnt till the night before he left for florida that i knew i loved him too and thats when i told him!!

I knew on our first date. It sounds crazy but its true. So then after a month he said it first and I said 'aww thanks' Then after even more dates and seeing how sweet and funny he was...I knew for sure that I loved him back and told him.

This sounds dumb but I realized one day when we were standing on Stanton and Ludlow. I remember just looking at him and realizing I never wanted to have a day where he wasn't by my side. And I told him!