UPDATE: DH update... With a story attached... Read if you are bored because its ALOT of drama
So, I think because I was so upset, DH decided to work overtime yesterday to make sure that I didn't go to the doctors office...
He made me SWARE ON THE BABY that I wouldn't go...
So, here is what is going to happen today:
DH is calling the office and is blocking his number. He is going to ask to speak directly to the doctor and if he cant, he is going to say that he will show up TONIGHT until the doctor will speak to him...
He is going to explain to the doctor:
1. That he was NEVER told about the MRI t obegin with
2. THat it is unfair to be told he has to go for an MRI within three days, when he needs to know ahead to take off from his job.
3. That he rescheduled, yes, but that if he would have kept the appt, he still WOULDNT have known about the MRI
4. That the NURSE cancelled his appt although he had asked to come in anyway to find out WHAT is going on, since he still KNOWS NOTHING.
5. That he would like a consultation to be told what the tests have revealed and that if he needs an MRI, it will be done when HE is ready, not when he is TOLD to go by a secretary.
Is he forgetting anything?
Thanks girls for everything...
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Once Upon A Jail Cell...
As we all know I've been asking for prayers for DH...
Life s*cks constantly, but keeping our heads up is the right thing to do right?
Well, after yesterday, I feear that I will end up hurting someone.... because I can not believe what is happening...
This may result in me giving birth inside a jail cell by a woman name Buck and her lover Jobob
if you remember, three weeks ago they called to tell him that they 'found something' else in one of the tests and was sending him for another test...
So, dh went and got the test.
Last Thursday we had to cancel due to the Tux having to be picked up, and then, DH grandmother had passed away...
The appt was supposed to be TONIGHT at 5:30...
So, dh calls to confirm his appt yesterday and the Secretary... Lets call her HCTIB(look at it backwards) says...
'We never got your MRI results'
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So, dh tells her, he was never sent for an MRI!!!!!
So HCTIB says 'Well Vincent, I'm sorry but you were supposed to be sent for the MRI, HAD YOU KEPT YOUR APPT ON THURSDAY YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN TOLD'
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So, VIn says 'But, i rescheduled for TOMORROW so wouldn't I have been told tomorrow?'
So, HCTIB says 'Look, HAD YOU NOT rescheduled last week, you would have been told you needed to have this before your follow up visit'
AND HANGS UP...
So... Big bad jenny mama decides... enough is enough...
I call back, and speak to a DIFFERENT woman who says
YOUR HUSBAND WAS SUPPOSED TO BE TOLD ABOUT THE MRI before the visit...
So I said 'And who was supposed to tell us because he was never told'
So she puts me on hold... and HCTIB comes on
'MRS FAZZOLARI, Listen, We couldnt understand why your husband had to reschedule thursday and couldnt come in until the following week...'
ME: BECAUSE his grandmother passed away!
HCTIB: Well, he never told me that. He was supposed to go for an MRI.
ME: Right, and WHEN WHEN WHEN WHEN WHEN was he supposed to be TOLD that he had to go for the MRI
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HCTIB: HAD YOUR HUSBAND COME IN ON THURSDAY HE WOULD HAVE BEEN TOLD TO GO FOR THE MRI...
ME: BUT HE RESCHEDULED FOR TOMORROW SO WHY CANT HE COME IN SO WE HAVE AN IDEA WHAT IS GOING ON?
HCTIB: Miss, listen to me. It doesnt matter WHAT your husband rescheduled for. The fact of the matter is, that your husband rescheduled and the doctor wanted him to have an MRI for his followup along with the rest to conculde his findings
ME: Which is what? We havn't been told what is going on, he hasnt been told ANYTHING , he's going in blind, and we're worried....
HCTIB cuts me off: LISTEN. LISTEN. HAD YOUR HUSBAND come in last week, he would have been told that he neede the mri for a more conclusive answer.
ME: #*#(#@(*)(@)*@&@*)(#&@)(*#^@*#@()*#^@*()#*@)(#^@)*(#&@)(#&)@(#&@)(#&@()#&@())@(#&@)(#&@()#@)(#&@)(#&@)(#&)@(&@)(#&@)(#&@()#&@()# HE STILL HAD AN APPT RESCHEDULED FOR TOMORROW IN WHICH HE HASNT BEEN TOLD A *(&*&( THING!
So, this is why I am freaking out...
I had called a friend and told her the story and she said she thinks the woman was supposed to tell vin about the MRI, never did, and is covering her A** up....
So...
Please please continue to pray ,because we are truely thinking the worse. The next step is a scary procedure which means something bad that I cant even write here...
Thanks girls...
He made me SWARE ON THE BABY that I wouldn't go...
So, here is what is going to happen today:
DH is calling the office and is blocking his number. He is going to ask to speak directly to the doctor and if he cant, he is going to say that he will show up TONIGHT until the doctor will speak to him...
He is going to explain to the doctor:
1. That he was NEVER told about the MRI t obegin with
2. THat it is unfair to be told he has to go for an MRI within three days, when he needs to know ahead to take off from his job.
3. That he rescheduled, yes, but that if he would have kept the appt, he still WOULDNT have known about the MRI
4. That the NURSE cancelled his appt although he had asked to come in anyway to find out WHAT is going on, since he still KNOWS NOTHING.
5. That he would like a consultation to be told what the tests have revealed and that if he needs an MRI, it will be done when HE is ready, not when he is TOLD to go by a secretary.
Is he forgetting anything?
Thanks girls for everything...
_____________________________
Once Upon A Jail Cell...
As we all know I've been asking for prayers for DH...
Life s*cks constantly, but keeping our heads up is the right thing to do right?
Well, after yesterday, I feear that I will end up hurting someone.... because I can not believe what is happening...
This may result in me giving birth inside a jail cell by a woman name Buck and her lover Jobob
if you remember, three weeks ago they called to tell him that they 'found something' else in one of the tests and was sending him for another test...
So, dh went and got the test.
Last Thursday we had to cancel due to the Tux having to be picked up, and then, DH grandmother had passed away...
The appt was supposed to be TONIGHT at 5:30...
So, dh calls to confirm his appt yesterday and the Secretary... Lets call her HCTIB(look at it backwards) says...
'We never got your MRI results'
So, dh tells her, he was never sent for an MRI!!!!!
So HCTIB says 'Well Vincent, I'm sorry but you were supposed to be sent for the MRI, HAD YOU KEPT YOUR APPT ON THURSDAY YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN TOLD'
So, VIn says 'But, i rescheduled for TOMORROW so wouldn't I have been told tomorrow?'
So, HCTIB says 'Look, HAD YOU NOT rescheduled last week, you would have been told you needed to have this before your follow up visit'
AND HANGS UP...
So... Big bad jenny mama decides... enough is enough...
I call back, and speak to a DIFFERENT woman who says
YOUR HUSBAND WAS SUPPOSED TO BE TOLD ABOUT THE MRI before the visit...
So I said 'And who was supposed to tell us because he was never told'
So she puts me on hold... and HCTIB comes on
'MRS FAZZOLARI, Listen, We couldnt understand why your husband had to reschedule thursday and couldnt come in until the following week...'
ME: BECAUSE his grandmother passed away!
HCTIB: Well, he never told me that. He was supposed to go for an MRI.
ME: Right, and WHEN WHEN WHEN WHEN WHEN was he supposed to be TOLD that he had to go for the MRI
(Hold on- cause here comes the part that will make you
HCTIB: HAD YOUR HUSBAND COME IN ON THURSDAY HE WOULD HAVE BEEN TOLD TO GO FOR THE MRI...
ME: BUT HE RESCHEDULED FOR TOMORROW SO WHY CANT HE COME IN SO WE HAVE AN IDEA WHAT IS GOING ON?
HCTIB: Miss, listen to me. It doesnt matter WHAT your husband rescheduled for. The fact of the matter is, that your husband rescheduled and the doctor wanted him to have an MRI for his followup along with the rest to conculde his findings
ME: Which is what? We havn't been told what is going on, he hasnt been told ANYTHING , he's going in blind, and we're worried....
HCTIB cuts me off: LISTEN. LISTEN. HAD YOUR HUSBAND come in last week, he would have been told that he neede the mri for a more conclusive answer.
ME: #*#(#@(*)(@)*@&@*)(#&@)(*#^@*#@()*#^@*()#*@)(#^@)*(#&@)(#&)@(#&@)(#&@()#&@())@(#&@)(#&@()#@)(#&@)(#&@)(#&)@(&@)(#&@)(#&@()#&@()# HE STILL HAD AN APPT RESCHEDULED FOR TOMORROW IN WHICH HE HASNT BEEN TOLD A *(&*&( THING!
So, this is why I am freaking out...
I had called a friend and told her the story and she said she thinks the woman was supposed to tell vin about the MRI, never did, and is covering her A** up....
So...
Please please continue to pray ,because we are truely thinking the worse. The next step is a scary procedure which means something bad that I cant even write here...
Thanks girls...
