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UPDATE: DH update... With a story attached... Read if you are bored because its ALOT of drama

Original post by PoppedInASnap

So, I think because I was so upset, DH decided to work overtime yesterday to make sure that I didn't go to the doctors office...

He made me SWARE ON THE BABY that I wouldn't go...

So, here is what is going to happen today:

DH is calling the office and is blocking his number. He is going to ask to speak directly to the doctor and if he cant, he is going to say that he will show up TONIGHT until the doctor will speak to him...

He is going to explain to the doctor:

1. That he was NEVER told about the MRI t obegin with
2. THat it is unfair to be told he has to go for an MRI within three days, when he needs to know ahead to take off from his job.
3. That he rescheduled, yes, but that if he would have kept the appt, he still WOULDNT have known about the MRI
4. That the NURSE cancelled his appt although he had asked to come in anyway to find out WHAT is going on, since he still KNOWS NOTHING.
5. That he would like a consultation to be told what the tests have revealed and that if he needs an MRI, it will be done when HE is ready, not when he is TOLD to go by a secretary.

Is he forgetting anything?

Thanks girls for everything...
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Once Upon A Jail Cell...

As we all know I've been asking for prayers for DH...

Life s*cks constantly, but keeping our heads up is the right thing to do right?

Well, after yesterday, I feear that I will end up hurting someone.... because I can not believe what is happening...

This may result in me giving birth inside a jail cell by a woman name Buck and her lover Jobob

if you remember, three weeks ago they called to tell him that they 'found something' else in one of the tests and was sending him for another test...


So, dh went and got the test.

Last Thursday we had to cancel due to the Tux having to be picked up, and then, DH grandmother had passed away...

The appt was supposed to be TONIGHT at 5:30...

So, dh calls to confirm his appt yesterday and the Secretary... Lets call her HCTIB(look at it backwards) says...

'We never got your MRI results'


So, dh tells her, he was never sent for an MRI!!!!!

So HCTIB says 'Well Vincent, I'm sorry but you were supposed to be sent for the MRI, HAD YOU KEPT YOUR APPT ON THURSDAY YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN TOLD'


So, VIn says 'But, i rescheduled for TOMORROW so wouldn't I have been told tomorrow?'

So, HCTIB says 'Look, HAD YOU NOT rescheduled last week, you would have been told you needed to have this before your follow up visit'

AND HANGS UP...

So... Big bad jenny mama decides... enough is enough...

I call back, and speak to a DIFFERENT woman who says

YOUR HUSBAND WAS SUPPOSED TO BE TOLD ABOUT THE MRI before the visit...

So I said 'And who was supposed to tell us because he was never told'

So she puts me on hold... and HCTIB comes on

'MRS FAZZOLARI, Listen, We couldnt understand why your husband had to reschedule thursday and couldnt come in until the following week...'

ME: BECAUSE his grandmother passed away!

HCTIB: Well, he never told me that. He was supposed to go for an MRI.

ME: Right, and WHEN WHEN WHEN WHEN WHEN was he supposed to be TOLD that he had to go for the MRI

(Hold on- cause here comes the part that will make you and )

HCTIB: HAD YOUR HUSBAND COME IN ON THURSDAY HE WOULD HAVE BEEN TOLD TO GO FOR THE MRI...

ME: BUT HE RESCHEDULED FOR TOMORROW SO WHY CANT HE COME IN SO WE HAVE AN IDEA WHAT IS GOING ON?

HCTIB: Miss, listen to me. It doesnt matter WHAT your husband rescheduled for. The fact of the matter is, that your husband rescheduled and the doctor wanted him to have an MRI for his followup along with the rest to conculde his findings

ME: Which is what? We havn't been told what is going on, he hasnt been told ANYTHING , he's going in blind, and we're worried....

HCTIB cuts me off: LISTEN. LISTEN. HAD YOUR HUSBAND come in last week, he would have been told that he neede the mri for a more conclusive answer.

ME: #*#(#@(*)(@)*@&@*)(#&@)(*#^@*#@()*#^@*()#*@)(#^@)*(#&@)(#&)@(#&@)(#&@()#&@())@(#&@)(#&@()#@)(#&@)(#&@)(#&)@(&@)(#&@)(#&@()#&@()# HE STILL HAD AN APPT RESCHEDULED FOR TOMORROW IN WHICH HE HASNT BEEN TOLD A *(&*&( THING!

So, this is why I am freaking out...

I had called a friend and told her the story and she said she thinks the woman was supposed to tell vin about the MRI, never did, and is covering her A** up....

So...

Please please continue to pray ,because we are truely thinking the worse. The next step is a scary procedure which means something bad that I cant even write here...

Thanks girls...

PoppedInASnap Posted:

Re: DH update... With a story attached... Read if you are bored because its ALOT of drama


Posted by las1

ugh sorry that happened wow she was rude. sounds like she realized she forgot to tell your DH and now is try to cover herself for her mistake.




absolutely...cant wait to call her out on it infront of the doctor tonight

::insert evil emote here::
coldasice217 Posted:

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That's ridiculous!

MLAngelo Posted:

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Jenny who is the doctor? I only ask because I know a few top special disease doctors (well my parents do.) If I know him and you don't get it solved today maybe I can help.

geegee827 Posted:

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I'd be FUMING!!!! Definitely go tonight and demand to see the dr!

KerriJohnS Posted:

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Sorry jenny!
You are probably right. And if someone needs to reschedule an appt then they need to reschedule.. I don't see why they are chewing you guys out about it.
Do you have to stick with this doctor? If it were me I'd probably want to change.
meg922 Posted:

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Sending loads of prayers your way!
gina409 Posted:

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jenny am so sorry u guys r dealing with this..

she sounds like a diff person and when all is said and done i would call or go in and tell them what this horrible person did..

she is def trying to coer her as$

if u dcide to go in and kick her butt im right there with u ready to rumble

PoppedInASnap Posted:

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Posted by MLAngelo

Jenny who is the doctor? I only ask because I know a few top special disease doctors (well my parents do.) If I know him and you don't get it solved today maybe I can help.



Dr. Garner- He is amazing- no problem with him just the secretary
GT143EA Posted:

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Posted by julesrbf

Honestly, at this point, I think he should just show up regardless. It's not his fault that he didn't know he was scheduled for an MRI, and clearly the office staff is less than helpful. Have him go in and demand to talk to the doctor directly - don't drag this out any longer.

Hope everything works out OK.



ITA Jenny!! This is insane! You need some answers!
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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Posted by gina409

jenny am so sorry u guys r dealing with this..

she sounds like a diff person and when all is said and done i would call or go in and tell them what this horrible person did..

she is def trying to coer her as$

if u dcide to go in and kick her butt im right there with u ready to rumble




I was kinda hoping to get the liver lady... no offense that limp may come in handy
gina409 Posted:

Re: DH update... With a story attached... Read if you are bored because its ALOT of drama


Posted by PoppedInASnap


Posted by gina409

jenny am so sorry u guys r dealing with this..

she sounds like a diff person and when all is said and done i would call or go in and tell them what this horrible person did..

she is def trying to coer her as$

if u dcide to go in and kick her butt im right there with u ready to rumble




I was kinda hoping to get the liver lady... no offense that limp may come in handy



omg

we should send her in..she was so scary they ant refuse him
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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Posted by KerriJohnS

Sorry jenny!
You are probably right. And if someone needs to reschedule an appt then they need to reschedule.. I don't see why they are chewing you guys out about it.
Do you have to stick with this doctor? If it were me I'd probably want to change.



Unfortunately, it took three months to even get an appt with him. He is the top rated in vins disease since its so uncommon :(

Like i told him...Anything that doesnt have a name, is surely stinky...his is HLBA27? RANDOM
GT143EA Posted:

Re: DH update... With a story attached... Read if you are bored because its ALOT of drama


Posted by PoppedInASnap


Like i told him...Anything that doesnt have a name, is surely stinky...his is HLBA27? RANDOM



Thats the name of the disease?
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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Posted by GT143EA


Posted by PoppedInASnap


Like i told him...Anything that doesnt have a name, is surely stinky...his is HLBA27? RANDOM



Thats the name of the disease?



SWARE TO GOD...how funky and strange is that?!?!??!

Its an auto immune disease....

HLA-B27 (whoops with spelling)
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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Posted by gina409


Posted by PoppedInASnap


Posted by gina409

jenny am so sorry u guys r dealing with this..

she sounds like a diff person and when all is said and done i would call or go in and tell them what this horrible person did..

she is def trying to coer her as$

if u dcide to go in and kick her butt im right there with u ready to rumble




I was kinda hoping to get the liver lady... no offense that limp may come in handy



omg

we should send her in..she was so scary they ant refuse him



HAHAHAAAA

she may scratch the secretary!
Why do me and vin always get stuck? I think vin has a sign on his head that reads 'Ill listen to your boring bull cause Im too nice'

he got into a 40 minute convo in the mens bathroom with some guy in disney...about church and then steak
MrsInglima Posted:

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I'm so sorry about all of this. I wish there was something more I could to do help, but you all will be in my prayers.
FutureMrsG Posted:

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Your husband should call and leave a message directly for the doctor. He should not have suffer b/c the woman in the office failed to pass on important information. Not to mention the additional stress caused by having to wait without any answers.

nicopico13 Posted:

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That's horrible and that lady is horrible. I'm so sorry you guys are going through this. I never understand why they have the nastiest person alive answering the phones!

kmiller Posted:

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PROBM Posted:

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i am so mad for you right now!!!! i would call back and ask to speak to her boss

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