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welcome to my summer

ant n tilde Posted:

welcome to my summer

This is why i DETEST the sumer.

I get home at 5, cook dinner, clean up and wait around for DH until . .. . .when? idk bc he is STILL at work!!!!

so now everything is cold and i am starving so bad that i dont even feel like eating anymore

but YESTERDAY when i waited until 7 to start cooking? he gets home at 7:10

and soon it will get worse
he will get home after 11pm

every

single

day

i mean the literally, 7 days a week - no vacation NOTHING

lonely lonely summer
DLM107 Posted:

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Sorry that he works so much. It stinks!! My husband works nights! I hate being home by myself
luvabul Posted:

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sorry!!! but u can come here n chat with us
what does ur DH do?
PegaLega Posted:

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That stinks...Ihope he gets home soon so you can eat!

Ill be honest-Im a brat-Id eat without him
PaddysGirl15 Posted:

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TJ22908 Posted:

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Posted by DLM107

Sorry that he works so much. It stinks!! My husband works nights! I hate being home by myself



Me too!! But I def would of ate by myself I'm a brat also!!
ant n tilde Posted:

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yeah since i thought he was still going to be getting home closer to 7PM thats why i waited, i dont know how to make the transition to not waiting

i guess i could cook, eat and then leave stuff out for him. . .

he owns a bait and tackle so summers are rough but then he has off for months in the winter

thanks for joining my pity party and i get to post more with you all now!
Mizzdimple Posted:

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im in the same boat..fh gets home so late..ugh...

i feel bad eating..but hello.......im starving...then i just dont eat
ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by Mizzdimple

im in the same boat..fh gets home so late..ugh...

i feel bad eating..but hello.......im starving...then i just dont eat



i could have totally NOT eaten just now i did bc i knew i had to

maybe this will be a new diet! LOL yea right i would prob wake up in the middle of the night and eat my pillow
hayleyandsteve Posted:

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sorry!

steve is going to ecuador for 3 weeks this summer, so we can chill on LIW and chat on those lonely nights!!
ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by hayleyandsteve

sorry!

steve is going to ecuador for 3 weeks this summer, so we can chill on LIW and chat on those lonely nights!!



awww three weeks stinks
kns11 Posted:

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Tough situation. Your such a good wife to wait to eat with him.

I used to when Scott came home 11:00-11:30ish. Now he gets home b/w 12:15-12:50 and I eat way before that but I still wait up for him.
ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by kns11


Tough situation. Your such a good wife to wait to eat with him.

I used to when Scott came home 11:00-11:30ish. Now he gets home b/w 12:15-12:50 and I eat way before that but I still wait up for him.



i am goin to *try* to wait up for him this summer but its so hard bc i go to bed at TEN!!!
HelenZ Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde


Posted by Mizzdimple

im in the same boat..fh gets home so late..ugh...

i feel bad eating..but hello.......im starving...then i just dont eat



i could have totally NOT eaten just now i did bc i knew i had to

maybe this will be a new diet! LOL yea right i would prob wake up in the middle of the night and eat my pillow



I would def. eat w/o him!! Mike eats without me all the time, he can't wait!
MJDoc12 Posted:

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i know how that can be....it sux. but after awhile you get used to it!

kns11 Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

Posted by kns11

Tough situation. Your such a good wife to wait to eat with him.

I used to when Scott came home 11:00-11:30ish. Now he gets home b/w 12:15-12:50 and I eat way before that but I still wait up for him.



i am goin to *try* to wait up for him this summer but its so hard bc i go to bed at TEN!!!


Initially is going to sux, but it is surprising how you get used to it. Something that also helps: early evening naps.
bemyyoko Posted:

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i'm in a similar boat, only it's not just summer with DH.
his job ***** time wise.
i finally convinced our boss(we work for the same company) to give him 1 day 'off' a week so that i can see him.

i always screw up the timing with dinner too, and i won't eat the meal if he's not home, i'll pick, but not sit down to eat.

i was told that i'll 'get over' that part once the newlywed stage is over

on another note, when i was little my dream was to own a bait and tackel shop. i think DH would die if he knew your DH owned one. He'd be super jealous regardless of the hours
SusiBtoM Posted:

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You'll get your schedules in sync.

Wehn we first got married, DH got home at about 7:30. I'd be starving by that time, especially since I get home at 6:00. He told me not to wait for him, to just start without him, but I would just eat my salad while waiting for him.

DH now gets home around 6:30 - 6:45, and dinner is just about ready for 7:00. I still plate up my salad and pick at it while cooking. Last night I ate pickles while cooking.


ksl268 Posted:

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We are in the same boat as you, only I'm the one who gets home late. I work later in the day so I usually cook first thing in the AM (something that can be heated up in the evening) and leave it for dh to eat when he gets home. I don'tusually get home until 10:30 most nights.

ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by bemyyoko

i'm in a similar boat, only it's not just summer with DH.
his job ***** time wise.
i finally convinced our boss(we work for the same company) to give him 1 day 'off' a week so that i can see him.

i always screw up the timing with dinner too, and i won't eat the meal if he's not home, i'll pick, but not sit down to eat.

i was told that i'll 'get over' that part once the newlywed stage is over

on another note, when i was little my dream was to own a bait and tackel shop. i think DH would die if he knew your DH owned one. He'd be super jealous regardless of the hours



everyone tells me the same thing! that i will get over it soon, but i am trying to be strong! LOL

and the hours stink in the winter but he has off basically from November to March so we cant complain. . .well i guess i AM complaining so i cant complain MUCH

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