What do you think about DH

looking at porn?

oh god...I'm a little embarrased...but it turns me on! I encourage it....

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Posted by Mrs. V 2008

oh god...I'm a little embarrased...but it turns me on! I encourage it....

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me too!! we don't watch often, but when we do, i get a little turned on.

personally the hubster &i keep away from it...luckily neither of us has ever been into it, so thankfully it's never really been a struggle. i think this topic is completely different for everyone because it's something very personel. Some people are completely fine with it while others are not. I will say, that if it IS something that bothers you, speak up...communication on ALL subjects is #1 with hubby & wife..and if u let it go, it'll only blow up later.. if u do like it, well then i guess u'll have a happy hubby (lol) but do speak up if it's an issue that bothers you..

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Posted by jtgarsik

personally the hubster &i keep away from it...luckily neither of us has ever been into it, so thankfully it's never really been a struggle. i think this topic is completely different for everyone because it's something very personel. Some people are completely fine with it while others are not. I will say, that if it IS something that bothers you, speak up...communication on ALL subjects is #1 with hubby & wife..and if u let it go, it'll only blow up later.. if u do like it, well then i guess u'll have a happy hubby (lol) but do speak up if it's an issue that bothers you..

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The issue is him doing it behind my back. He used to go on the sexy asian women. After I caught him and freaked on him, he stopped. Today he was off and on gorgeous wrestling women (I saw it in the history). Would this bother you to know that it was he is looking at while you are not home?

it doesn't bother me, but i know he gets a bit embarrassed that i know what he's looking at. whenever i use his computer, and type in a website it automatically brings up the sites he's been looking at and i always bust on him for it. i know he looks at it when i'm not home, it's a given - he's going to do it and i can honestly say it doesn't bother me one bit.

if it does bother you though, you should speak to him about it.

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Posted by teenigrrl

it doesn't bother me, but i know he gets a bit embarrassed that i know what he's looking at. whenever i use his computer, and type in a website it automatically brings up the sites he's been looking at and i always bust on him for it. i know he looks at it when i'm not home, it's a given - he's going to do it and i can honestly say it doesn't bother me one bit.

if it does bother you though, you should speak to him about it.

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I had mentioned it to him in the past and he stopped, or so I thought. It really doesn't bother you? I feel like I should be the only one he is looking at. Is that selfish? It makes me feel like I am not good enough for him, that he needs to look elsewhere. Does that sound stupid? Maybe it is my low self-esteem.

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Posted by Daisy Bride

I'm right there with you, it really bothers me. maybe I'm just oldfashion or closeminded but I hate it.

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I am not the only one.

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Mrs. V 2008

oh god...I'm a little embarrased...but it turns me on! I encourage it....

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me too!! we don't watch often, but when we do, i get a little turned on.

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dirty girl

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Mrs. V 2008

oh god...I'm a little embarrased...but it turns me on! I encourage it....

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me too!! we don't watch often, but when we do, i get a little turned on.

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dirty girl

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Very dirty!!!

Me likey!!!

not ever an issue bc neither one of us is into it.

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Posted by wundmoretime

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Posted by teenigrrl

it doesn't bother me, but i know he gets a bit embarrassed that i know what he's looking at. whenever i use his computer, and type in a website it automatically brings up the sites he's been looking at and i always bust on him for it. i know he looks at it when i'm not home, it's a given - he's going to do it and i can honestly say it doesn't bother me one bit.

if it does bother you though, you should speak to him about it.

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I had mentioned it to him in the past and he stopped, or so I thought. It really doesn't bother you? I feel like I should be the only one he is looking at. Is that selfish? It makes me feel like I am not good enough for him, that he needs to look elsewhere. Does that sound stupid? Maybe it is my low self-esteem.

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i dont think its stupid, and def not selfish, its how you feel about it and if youd be willing to compromise or sacrifice something for his feelings, there are things hopefully he would do the same with for you.

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Posted by wundmoretime

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Posted by jtgarsik

personally the hubster &i keep away from it...luckily neither of us has ever been into it, so thankfully it's never really been a struggle. i think this topic is completely different for everyone because it's something very personel. Some people are completely fine with it while others are not. I will say, that if it IS something that bothers you, speak up...communication on ALL subjects is #1 with hubby & wife..and if u let it go, it'll only blow up later.. if u do like it, well then i guess u'll have a happy hubby (lol) but do speak up if it's an issue that bothers you..

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The issue is him doing it behind my back. He used to go on the sexy asian women. After I caught him and freaked on him, he stopped. Today he was off and on gorgeous wrestling women (I saw it in the history). Would this bother you to know that it was he is looking at while you are not home?

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honestly, no it doesnt bother me. I know he watches it and its fine. I personally just think its something most men do, whether they talk about it or not. My dh is open with me about it but i guess bc i dont mind so he doesnt feel he has to hide it from me.

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Posted by wundmoretime

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Posted by teenigrrl

it doesn't bother me, but i know he gets a bit embarrassed that i know what he's looking at. whenever i use his computer, and type in a website it automatically brings up the sites he's been looking at and i always bust on him for it. i know he looks at it when i'm not home, it's a given - he's going to do it and i can honestly say it doesn't bother me one bit.

if it does bother you though, you should speak to him about it.

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I had mentioned it to him in the past and he stopped, or so I thought. It really doesn't bother you? I feel like I should be the only one he is looking at. Is that selfish? It makes me feel like I am not good enough for him, that he needs to look elsewhere. Does that sound stupid? Maybe it is my low self-esteem.

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thats not how it is at all, so dont feel bad or feel its against you. The way i see it and i know many will disagree with me but i am sorry to say, that ANYBODY would notice somebody of the opposite sex and think they are attractive. Doesn't mean OMG look at that hott person i want to be with them. But its natural, nobody is going to see somebody who is attractive and say 'Oh no they are not attractive bc i am with somebody so nobody else can be attractive' i can see a guy and think 'oh hes a good looking guy' and thats all, doesnt mean i want to do anything with them. Hey if i see a gorgeous girl i can say 'hey she is a gorgeous girl' if i can notice a gorgeous girl then why cant DH. He still has eyes, and the way i can see a girl and say yes she has a great body and is beautiful, i doubt my Dh now is going to think gorgeous girls are ugly bc he is with me. Look at how many times ive seen girls on this site posting shirtless pics of hot guys and everyone drooling over them. But if our dh's were on a site and posted a pic of a half naked hott girl and said 'OMG how hott is this girl' women get mad at them.

Porn, its something they loved watching since young teenage boys. Its better that they are at home watching porn rather than trying to live out those actions.

However, if it bothers you this much then you should talk to him and express to him how you are feeling.

We both watch