The worst thing for me is having to get DH up when he over sleeps for an appointment. Which is always! Also, trying to curb DH's spending habits. I can't get him to save or cut down for the life of me. Other than that, I love everything about it and I love the way it makes me feel to be a married woman! To be with the man I love for the rest of my life!
Having to check with each other when you are making plans.
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SInce living together and being married, it feels harder to spend 'quality' time together, need to make a greater effort to make plans, etc which we do!
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Sometimes I would like more alone time at home.
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Always having to clean up after 2 people. I think its bad enough the girly habits I have like having my makeup and hairdryer on the sink but gosh...I'd love for his clothes to be picked up off the floor. I am a nea freak and hate cleaning for 2. This morning he spit the scope into the sink...all i saw was cinnamon red when i woke up...thats disgusting!
My DH does the same stuff! He leaves his clothes everywhere! He even leaves it in the den and that pisses me off. There will be two days worth of cloths there, b/c sometimes, he falls asleep there. I do hate cleaning up his cloths though!
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I got over the clothes everywhere thing but after being married for a few years now, things don't bug me anymore like they used to. I think that checking in with each other before making plans is a courtesy to each other to make sure we stay connected.
The smallest things will bug us and then we both have a pet peeve session with each other.
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I got over the clothes everywhere thing but after being married for a few years now, things don't bug me anymore like they used to. I think that checking in with each other before making plans is a courtesy to each other to make sure we stay connected.
The smallest things will bug us and then we both have a pet peeve session with each other.
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He's a remote hogger and a channel flipper!!!
I feel bad going into the bedroom and watch TV by myself because then I don't feel like we're together then.
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my nagging habit has heightened! so he says *wink-wink*. he also has a bad spending habit. i have to admit.. so do i. argh! but right now it's getting better.. that's one less thing to nag about...
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The INTENSE focus on our 'future' by us and EVERY, SINGLE HUMAN. When are we/you having kids? When are we/you buying a house? When we're fifty, will our retirement plan be enough? Etc. I am all for planning, but I feel like I've been thrown at high speed into this world of thigns I don't want to worry about yet.
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Let's see, his clutter. He doesn't like to get rid of things. That's a BIG adjustment for me--I had a pretty uncluttered life before. He also leaves things laying around for awhile, although not his clothes. Those he picks up.
Sometimes I would like time alone, or to watch whatever I want on TV.
Overall, I love being married and I enjoy living with DH. Being single and living alone was not always wonderful--often it was just plain hard! I love having someone help me with things.
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Always having to clean up after 2 people. I think its bad enough the girly habits I have like having my makeup and hairdryer on the sink but gosh...I'd love for his clothes to be picked up off the floor. I am a nea freak and hate cleaning for 2. This morning he spit the scope into the sink...all i saw was cinnamon red when i woke up...thats disgusting!
this wasn't new when we got married b/c we were together since day 1, so I had time to get used to it. let's just say i never got used to it!
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Always having to clean up after 2 people. I think its bad enough the girly habits I have like having my makeup and hairdryer on the sink but gosh...I'd love for his clothes to be picked up off the floor. I am a nea freak and hate cleaning for 2. This morning he spit the scope into the sink...all i saw was cinnamon red when i woke up...thats disgusting!
this wasn't new when we got married b/c we were together since day 1, so I had time to get used to it. let's just say i never got used to it!
Me too.
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Blu-ize
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don't even get me started about what is left in the bathroom sink!
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i would definitely say not getting to watch my trashy shows on TV as much- LOL... i love to just zone out watching the mindless shows... hes an engineer and lives for teh history channel and discovery channel also, definitely his clutter- i hate clutter, and he hates to throw stuff away... not a good combo sometimes
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We have to find that balance between 'wife', 'husband' and 'parents'. Do I make sense? Meaning, I don't want to nag about your shoes in the middle of the floor or having to do laundry and he doesn't want to nag about my disdain for dishes. So a lot doesn't get done. We need to find that balance pronto!
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the one and only thing that i dont like is cooking dinner....i LOVE to bake, but cooking is not my favorite thing....hopefully, i will become more aquanted to it sometime this century
