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What was the one thing that you were upset about but got over real quick on your wedding day -(Because we had no other choice)?

Original post by KRISTYRUSSELL

1. For us it was the car - It kept breaking down, stalling and backfireing the entire way. When we pulled up to the front of the Chateau Briand, our photographer & his assistant were laughing so hard, it was like Chevy Chases Christmas Vacation Movie, yes that bad. The 1933 Packard we were in was back firing and was blowing heavy white smoke everywhere that you couldnt even see us get out of the car. We were laughing so hard I couldnt even breath, wish he would of gotten a photo of that, then we heard a noise, the car actually blew a head gasket and leaked anti freezed all over the front of Chateau Briand, Now mind you we had no air conditioning due to this happening, so I was not a happy camper when I first got in the car considering my hair went flat & it was so humid and hot outside, but the sun was shining on us. . We decided to go with the flow and just laugh our butts off about it, hey its was our wedding day... What else could we do, then we went in for portraits and by the time we had come out about an hour later we had a new car waiting for us, not what we wanted, but a car none the less to get us to the wedding with airconditioning. ..... & We decided not to let it ruin our wedding, as long as the car got us to the church on time, we were thrilled.

P.S. It backfired all the way from the Melville Marriott to Carle Place and kept stalling in the middle of the LIE and on Old Country Road,. so many people in there cars were laughing there Butttt's of off Yeah......

2. ***Our cake was the biggest dissappointment of the night, not anything like we ordered, talk about being devestated, the look we both had when the chateau briand showed it to us was horrific, I dont think we will ever forget that terrible feeling, something that we were so looking forward to having, we paid for a custom cake and expected what we ordered, what we go was something totally different, but what can you do, the wedding must go on......right so we took a deep breath and moved forward past it..................

3. Our Beautiful unique unity candle, it almost burned down our wedding table. Im just assuming that when it was transported from the church to the reception hall and placed on our table as we wanted, someone must of emptied out the liquid wax for transportation reasons but then forgot to re-add it, so at one point I came off the dance floor and was standing in front of my table with some friends I said I smell something burning,they did too, we didnt know what it was, I went to get someone who worked there to tell them and what did I see, my unity candle on fire, I mean a big flame with melted wax all over and it smelled really bad, the unity candle was more then 3/4 melted with wax melted all over the place, the flame was so big it couldnt get blown out by only me, so I grabbed whomever was by me & said blow, nothing got destroyed other then my expensive candle which was to last forever and was given to be by someone special for our engagement. But again it happended so quick, that nobody else noticed.
jeanla4c Posted:

Re: What was the one thing that you were upset about but got over real quick on your wedding day -(Because we had no other choice)?

DJ played a song from our Do not play list and gave out some give aways when I told him not too--but guests got into it and it was one song and short and I was like-WHATEVER!

MushesGirl Posted:

Re: What was the one thing that you were upset about but got over real quick on your wedding day -(Because we had no other choice)?


THAT REMINDS ME - the luxury bus we rented from a vendor on this site who I'm not allowed to mention

I'm actually still not over that one. The driver was AWFUL! He was late picking up my guests, got lost going to the ceremony, making my wedding start late (grrrrrrr.) then he ordered 2 lobster dinners at the after party for he & his wife & had the bill sent to ME! THEN he did a trip back to the hotel and was supposed to come back for the rest of the guests but instead ABANDONED THEM leaving them 17 miles from their hotel! We had to call for cabs to bring them back on a Saturday night in the Hamptons!






holy cow i'd be fuming
KRISTYRUSSELL Posted:

Re: What was the one thing that you were upset about but got over real quick on your wedding day -(Because we had no other choice)?

Wow, so glad we all had the best day of our life and didnt let all these things affect our wonderful wedding day girls!!

mskittynj Posted:

Re: What was the one thing that you were upset about but got over real quick on your wedding day -(Because we had no other choice)?

1. The place cards!! I had them custom made and they NEVER made it to the hall due to an error on the part of the lady who made them and UPS! I hateeeeeeeeeed the handwrittenc ards, but at that point there was nothing I could've done!

2. I never got to wear my husband's wedding gift to me! He gave me the most beautiful diamond studs ot wear on my second hole and I forgot to put them on!!!! GRRRRRRRRRR

3. My dad not coming to the OWG to take pictures with me....oh I won't even get into that one....oh well....
XOXOXO
Kitty
brittny817 Posted:

Re: What was the one thing that you were upset about but got over real quick on your wedding day -(Because we had no other choice)?

The BM dresses ALL being altered incorrectly. I completely hold Lillette's responsible for that as I went there TWICE with two different BM's to show them how they needed to be altered. I even made sure they marked each BM's card. That proved to be a waste of time bc they were all screwed up. Fortunately our DOC pinned the girls (making a mock bustle) and no one really noticed. I got over it quickly.

chapel06 Posted:

Re: What was the one thing that you were upset about but got over real quick on your wedding day -(Because we had no other choice)?

wanted to add, because i have waited a whole year to vent, DH's cousin (more like a sister because he was raised in their family) gave his best man speech and the entire speech was about all the things DH has accomplished in his life and nothing about DH and I as a couple, where as the speech that my brother gave was a nice mix of both to really welcome DH into the family. maybe I overeacted, but it really bothered me.

KRISTYRUSSELL Posted:

Re: What was the one thing that you were upset about but got over real quick on your wedding day -(Because we had no other choice)?

Chapel06 says:
wanted to add, because i have waited a whole year to vent, DH's cousin (more like a sister because he was raised in their family) gave his best man speech and the entire speech was about all the things DH has accomplished in his life and nothing about DH and I as a couple, where as the speech that my brother gave was a nice mix of both to really welcome DH into the family. maybe I overeacted, but it really bothered me.


I understand 100% our best man said the same sentence over 5 times, he talked so low and kept raving about his speech saying that he should be the only one giving it and how great it was, he got nervious and said nothing about us and his only line was Russ is a great guy, I was horrified......what the heck..........
MrsD06 Posted:

Re: What was the one thing that you were upset about but got over real quick on your wedding day -(Because we had no other choice)?

Are they doing anything to make up for this? Why can't you say who they are? I thought this was ok as long as you stick to the facts....

sorry, that really *****!


Posted by carolinebr
THAT REMINDS ME - the luxury bus we rented from a vendor on this site who I'm not allowed to mention

I'm actually still not over that one. The driver was AWFUL! He was late picking up my guests, got lost going to the ceremony, making my wedding start late (grrrrrrr.) then he ordered 2 lobster dinners at the after party for he & his wife & had the bill sent to ME! THEN he did a trip back to the hotel and was supposed to come back for the rest of the guests but instead ABANDONED THEM leaving them 17 miles from their hotel! We had to call for cabs to bring them back on a Saturday night in the Hamptons!




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