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What would you do? (semi - long)

Kimbalina Posted:

What would you do? (semi - long)

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JJC Posted:

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that is so strange!
RadiantBride Posted:

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Maybe he would just rather be safe then sorry, and that's why he got you the test. I do think it was out of place for your MIL to call you at work with that.

Are you upset that he picked up the test for you?
SB7308 Posted:

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Plain and simple. Tell her to stop asking you. Its rude and none of her business right now.

I bet MIL told DH to buy the test.
SFAR89 Posted:

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If my mother in law did that to me, I would seriously have a hard time holding back some very unkind words.

1) If I look pregnant and I don't tell you that I am pregnant, then maybe you shouldn't ask.

2) If I was pregnant and we were trying to have a baby, we would've informed you of that. It's not like we can keep that sort of thing a secret.

This just angers me lol b/c MIL text me yesterday and the day before saying 'so when am I gonna be a grandmother' and she keeps passing comments about how 'when your older you wont have any patience' I keep telling her ' I don't have any patience now, so what's the difference?'.

I would be offended as well.
Kimbalina Posted:

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Posted by RadiantBride

Maybe he would just rather be safe then sorry, and that's why he got you the test. I do think it was out of place for your MIL to call you at work with that.

Are you upset that he picked up the test for you?

Future Mulligan Posted:

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maybe he just wanted to be sure that you weren't pregnant before he rips his mom a new one which i absolutely think he should........

i thought that you guys didn't want kids at all? is that something your inlaws know? if so, i would be even MORE offended
Kimbalina Posted:

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Posted by SFAR89

If my mother in law did that to me, I would seriously have a hard time holding back some very unkind words.

1) If I look pregnant and I don't tell you that I am pregnant, then maybe you shouldn't ask.

2) If I was pregnant and we were trying to have a baby, we would've informed you of that. It's not like we can keep that sort of thing a secret.

This just angers me lol b/c MIL text me yesterday and the day before saying 'so when am I gonna be a grandmother' and she keeps passing comments about how 'when your older you wont have any patience' I keep telling her ' I don't have any patience now, so what's the difference?'.

I would be offended as well.




Thank you!!! I agree! It is very rude and presumptious to ask when you have been told no!
She knows we do not have plans to be parents.
Kimbalina Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan

maybe he just wanted to be sure that you weren't pregnant before he rips his mom a new one which i absolutely think he should........

i thought that you guys didn't want kids at all? is that something your inlaws know? if so, i would be even MORE offended


Yup, we do not plan on having kids. MIL knows this!!! She calls our dog her grandpuppy!

I would like him to let her know that it was rude and that I don't want to hear that!
FinallyEngaged Posted:

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i just want to give you a great big i think u deserve it!
RadiantBride Posted:

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Posted by Kimbalina

Posted by Future Mulligan

maybe he just wanted to be sure that you weren't pregnant before he rips his mom a new one which i absolutely think he should........

i thought that you guys didn't want kids at all? is that something your inlaws know? if so, i would be even MORE offended


Yup, we do not plan on having kids. MIL knows this!!! She calls our dog her grandpuppy!

I would like him to let her know that it was rude and that I don't want to hear that!


Are you on the pill Kim?
Kimbalina Posted:

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Posted by RadiantBride
Are you on the pill Kim?


Nooo,, but I think it might be time. We use protection other wise. But I didnt have insurance till 09 so i think I am going to set up an appointment.
Kimbalina Posted:

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Posted by FinallyEngaged

i just want to give you a great big i think u deserve it!


Thanks! I need one today!
Browneyesncute Posted:

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hmmmmmmmm i guess maybe she scared him, Ive had people tell me i look preggers that i'm glowing, and dh always freaks out lol

I dont think in any situation anyone should ever ask if you are pregnant!
Lori-Chris2008 Posted:

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Wow.. that is kind of intrusive if you ask me. Like its the time of year where EVERYONE is sick. ppl are coughing and sneezing all over the place.. This weather does not help either.

I think you went about it very well.. Here is a and a for not being pregnant! lol
RadiantBride Posted:

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Posted by Kimbalina

Posted by RadiantBride
Are you on the pill Kim?


Nooo,, but I think it might be time. We use protection other wise. But I didnt have insurance till 09 so i think I am going to set up an appointment.


Better to get on the pill, so that no one will have anything to say. Have your DH tell him mom that you guys are taking precautions so that she wont ever ask again. I know how pissed you must have been with her phone call but hopefully this was the first and last time it happens.
Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan

maybe he just wanted to be sure that you weren't pregnant before he rips his mom a new one which i absolutely think he should........

i thought that you guys didn't want kids at all? is that something your inlaws know? if so, i would be even MORE offended


ITA!
GinaZ Posted:

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OMG! Im so sorry! Are they more hoping you are pg? I'd just tell them you are on your period right now and usually that means that you are not pg or something.
have you spoken to your husband about this since?
bluekat16 Posted:

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I totally think it was rude of er to call you at work and go into all that detail. However, maybe she was just concerned based on her own experience. She totally should have spoken to you in person or at least when you were home. Also, she should've just dropped it once you said you didn't think you were preggards. As for your DH I think he might've just been trying to err on the side of caution.

Maybe you should have DH tell her that she shouldn't call you about such personal matters at work, that it makes you uncomfortable.

Kimbalina Posted:

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Thanks ladies

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