Since getting married? Ppl always say 'marriage changes everything' But not in my case since we already lived together. The only thing that's changed here is my name and I wear an extra ring.
Obviously, if you didnt live with your DH before, moving in together for the first time is a HUGE change.
flibbertigibbet
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we didn't live together before. so that.
he's fucccking allllways arounnnnd.
jhines4684
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Posted by flibbertigibbet
we didn't live together before. so that.
he's fucccking allllways arounnnnd.
yeah, always around.
i need to get him some boyfriends or something.
kris_gets_hitched
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We didn't live together until we were married, so that was our big change.
He had his own apartment and I had my own apartment.
Now we live in the place that was his apartment.
I never wanted to live with someone until we were married because I felt like entering into marriage should really be a big damn deal, and that having lived together, it wouldn't be.
But that's just me. I understand the benefits of living with someone before marriage...you learn a lot about a person...but we were together for almost 6 years by the time we were married and both had our own places, so it's not like we went into living together having not figured out the basic way to live our lives...you know, like balancing a budget, cooking for ourselves, getting errands done, etc.
Other than that...we have a whole lot more money now that we're living together, combining expenses, not paying rent on two places...that kinda stuff.
cateydee
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Posted by flibbertigibbet
we didn't live together before. so that.
he's fucccking allllways arounnnnd.
i love my bedroom door. bathroom door. just. doors.
kris_gets_hitched
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Posted by flibbertigibbet
we didn't live together before. so that.
he's fucccking allllways arounnnnd.
yeah, always around.
i need to get him some boyfriends or something.
This is why he has a man cave with his guitars.
So he leaves me the eff alone.
SummerBride10
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No more planning for the wedding stress?
I think life is less stressful being married!
cateydee
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No more planning for the wedding stress?
I think life is less stressful being married!
agree!!
kris_gets_hitched
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Posted by SummerBride10
No more planning for the wedding stress?
I think life is less stressful being married!
agree!!
+1
I don't even want to help people I know who are engaged, other than 'well I know this place is pretty and has good food...'
No. Interest.
jhines4684
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Posted by jhines4684
Posted by flibbertigibbet
we didn't live together before. so that.
he's fucccking allllways arounnnnd.
yeah, always around.
i need to get him some boyfriends or something.
This is why he has a man cave with his guitars.
So he leaves me the eff alone.
when we get a house, he can have one all he wants, no objections here! lol.
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Posted by cateydee
Since getting married? Ppl always say 'marriage changes everything' But not in my case since we already lived together. The only thing that's changed here is my name and I wear an extra ring.
Ditto!!!
kimmaymb20
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Um really not a whole lot and that's fine by me.
GR2010
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Just my name... and the second ring. We lived together before, paid bills jointly etc etc so all of that stuff is the same...
flibbertigibbet
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**** giving him a man cave. i want my own cave.
he can have the rest of the house.
and clean the rest of the house.
ill keep my cave clean.
(maybe i should've stayed unmarried.)
MongieToBe
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Posted by dctead
Posted by cateydee
Since getting married? Ppl always say 'marriage changes everything' But not in my case since we already lived together. The only thing that's changed here is my name and I wear an extra ring.
Ditto!!!
same here!
Linzee636
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probably that i don't spend as much time with my friends without DH. we tend to hang out with each other or with our friends as couples, but it's a lot less often that we split up and he goes with the guys and i do with the girls.
JAAMS
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I'd say everything is pretty much the same...
I always took our relationship seriously; however, I really do take the vows that we made very seriously and work to do those specific things as best as I can.
T E R I
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**** giving him a man cave. i want my own cave.
he can have the rest of the house.
and clean the rest of the house.
ill keep my cave clean.
(maybe i should've stayed unmarried.)
he had a man cave, but me and the dog have taken it over
JBC12510
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I'm not really sure if anything has changed. We started living together 2 months before the wedding so that is still new... other than that, I think were the same?
