Since getting married? Ppl always say 'marriage changes everything' But not in my case since we already lived together. The only thing that's changed here is my name and I wear an extra ring.
Obviously, if you didnt live with your DH before, moving in together for the first time is a HUGE change.
ourwedding9510
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We're more comfortable I think. I didn't do ANY of the cooking before the wedding and now I do. We know there is more security in the relationship (even though it was there before it's just more secure somehow). And money is easier. We haven't really combined anything yet but it's more our money then mine and mine. Like yesterday I took out money for him from my account and today I used his debit card for my 7/11 run. I don't really stress about money as much as I used to.
AwaitingAugust
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we're mostly the same since we lived together for almost 2 years before getting married.
one thing though is that we share better ... like, before the wedding, i was always a bit weary about letting DH borrow my car ... now, i just don't care.
jaybee217
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my last name!
we lived together for 2 years before we got married, so we had joint account & bills.
we are more focused on LT goals now though (like buying a house).