everyone keeps asking me how married life feels lol. i lived with my dh before we were married so i already knew what to expect. i do feel this strange hard to discribe feeling. i almost feel like we are more important to each other if thats possible. does anyone know what im feeling?
IrishTracy
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My biggest change was signing anything w/ my married name.
JodiBabe
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Yes, it is just a different level of closeness or intimacy. A little hard to describe but I know what you mean.
ETA:I agree with Tracy. I've gotten better at it but it was hard at first.
janwinterbridejoy
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i know i kept starting to right my old last name.
JodiBabe
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My maiden name had long letters (d & l) and married name has alot of alot of low letters all together (mmi) alot of up & down (if that makes sense) and at first it was very confusing but it has gotten easier.
Several times I signed my maiden name to checks with my married name on it.
DaniRN
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My biggest change was signing anything w/ my married name.
yup-that's about the only change.
janwinterbridejoy
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i had a check sent back because of putting the wrong name. also on my honeymoon someone was calling for mrs my knew last name and i was just looking the other way not realizing it was mee
VickiC
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Getting used to sleeping with someone else!
It took me a couple of months to get used to the fact there was someone next to me. I was like a walking zombie the first few months we were married since I was having such a rough time sleeping.
Latina511
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My biggest change was signing anything w/ my married name.
Same here.
dgtlsunshine
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Actually I think the biggest for me was realizing how much responsibility people put on each of us to be accountable for each other.
For example, if I attend an event without Steve people are like where is Steve like what happen to him that we are not together
nrvbrd
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Dh and I did not live together before we were married, so that is the biggest change I think.
Other than that our relationship is pretty much the same.
jennbaby
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My biggest change was signing anything w/ my married name.
ditto
OctBride03
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Moving out of my parents house and making a home of our own.
And also signing my new name, it took a while for me to actually do it! lol
I have yet to change the info on my license...
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aliciahelene
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The biggest change for us is WE ARENT FIGHTING anymore!!! YAHOOOOOOO we were so stressed before the wedding, it just wasnt fun, we lost the ring, had a few car accidents, bad thinsg were hitting us all at once, it was tough time!! Now that the wedding is over, it feles more like we are dating againa nd having fun, enjoying each other..ITS GREAT!! I couldnt be happier! i keep expecting something really bad to happen, Im just too happy!
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I am responsible for a household, no matter what anyone says it is always left up to the woman to make sure the house runs smoothly. How much I would have to bite my tongue, how much I would learn about myself and my husband. There is a lot. The name signing thing too
Well as I was looking at some pix I found one from our HM and one from our 1 yr anniv trip, I don't think I have changed much in how I look yet I think I still have the NW glow
HM pix
1 yr anniv trip
Hubby looks the same too, we have changed as people that much I know for sure, it has gotten sweeter and we are definitely closer.
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I am responsible for a household, no matter what anyone says it is always left up to the woman to make sure the house runs smoothly.
Shamma, this is so true.
I definetely run our household. I make sure there is always food in the fridge, clothes are clean, making sure things are running smoothly.
Just yesterday, I went to the hairdresser, came home went to the laundry, and when I got back simulataneously, put the laundry away while I prepared dinner.
jennbaby
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HM pix
my FAV pick of you!
sonia
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the fact that we actually get to see each other everyday isntead of every 2 or 3 months!!!
also just learning to share every little thing and realizing that all my decision involve him and vice versa.
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My biggest change was the amount of responsibility that is on my shoulders. Keeping the house clean, laundry done, food bought, bills paid and mailed...I need to remember everyone's bday and buy cards/gifts. I'm responsible for DH and making sure the alarm is set - that he gets up.
