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Which body part has become the biggest bane of your existence?

PeteysBride Posted:

Which body part has become the biggest bane of your existence?

This is a depressing topic I know! But then we can do a spinnoff off the parts we love most! I am looking for sympathy from my fellow ladies; that we all have one thing about us we dislike but we are still DEAD SEXY!

i thought of this because I went to the gym today and the genius that deisgned it, put a WALL OF GLASS facing from the lockers so you must walk towards it on your way to make the right that takes you into the shower area.

I have always hated my thighs but seeing them wall to wall lmao NOT GOOD for the ego that is supposed to be getting me through boduoir pics in 2 months!

But I digress. The thighs and budunk-a-dunk have always been an issue. My new issue is my belly!

I NEVER HAD ONE. Seriously-its flatish still but definetly has some pooch going on. I know most women do but mine has ALWAYS been unanturally flat naturally. I never did situps EVER and yet trainers would ask me what I did to get the six pack. I would tell em I drank maragritas and ate cheese puffs

My mom and my brother have the same lines of deliniation naturally. just odd. But now as I get older, I still have the lines on the side, but in the middle I get the softness. Final straw was when Pete 'CUPPED IT' last weekend when we were spooning.

When i kicked him (none too gently) he said 'WHAT? I like it. its pokey.'

Pokey????!

So thats my newest obession-getting the belly BANISHED!

Anyone else?
MJDoc12 Posted:

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definitely the belly---if my stomach wasn't so effing huge i wouldn't seem quite so fat.

i'm okay with my legs---and my thighs are thick---butt and all---but the stomach pooches on me and it is my hugest drawback
carolinebr Posted:

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My stomach

ever since having a baby, it won't go flat anymore

and my boobs. They aren't as full as they used to be.

vmystique33 Posted:

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Posted by carolinebr

My stomach

ever since having a baby, it won't go flat anymore

and my boobs. They aren't as full as they used to be.




Im with you on this one
PeteysBride Posted:

Re: Which body part has become the biggest bane of your existence?


Posted by carolinebr

My stomach

ever since having a baby, it won't go flat anymore

and my boobs. They aren't as full as they used to be.




They didn't get bigger? My mom's did-actually now that she went through meopause they are HUGE! Almost a D and she used to be a B! She's so prudish lol that she is ashamed of them. I feel sorry for her. My dad loves em and DH teases her by wolf whistling when she wears something snuger than a tee shirt-boy is going to get his head whapped off one day!

And you have a good excuse for your pooch-Ella! Whats my excuse? Age?..
PeteysBride Posted:

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Posted by vmystique33


Posted by carolinebr

My stomach

ever since having a baby, it won't go flat anymore

and my boobs. They aren't as full as they used to be.




Im with you on this one



I LOVE your avatar!
vmystique33 Posted:

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Im with you on this one


I LOVE your avatar!


Thank you!!
EverlovingEv Posted:

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I think you and I have a very similar body type. Take a look at my wedding pics - my stomach is super flat and I never do crunches or anything like that. My butt and thighs have never been small and I've come to term with that

But I've put on about 7lbs after the wedding and for some f*cked up reason, the weight went into my tummy and now I have a little something something there too!!! I hate it!!!!!!!

I went to the gym two days in a row and I'm going to continue to go daily until I lose the 7lb.

Good Luck to you!!
PeteysBride Posted:

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Posted by EverlovingEv

I think you and I have a very similar body type. Take a look at my wedding pics - my stomach is super flat and I never do crunches or anything like that. My butt and thighs have never been small and I've come to term with that

But I've put on about 7lbs after the wedding and for some f*cked up reason, the weight went into my tummy and now I have a little something something there too!!! I hate it!!!!!!!

I went to the gym two days in a row and I'm going to continue to go daily until I lose the 7lb.

Good Luck to you!!



YES! I can deal with the booty and the thighs-I will never look anything less than 'athletic' even if I diet from here to Doomsday and excercsie like a fiend. But I can deal with that if the belly would flatten out!

I am getting little tiny handles-soooo small but I see them and KNOW they are there-its a subtle slope. Its KILLING me. My tummy used to be concave!

I went to the gym this morning and going tomorrow and Friday too. Good luck to you too!
Butterfly123 Posted:

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Definitely the patches of cellulite all over my thighs and butt. Its gotten out of control.

dgirl0114 Posted:

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I know it's all my fault because I haven't worked out (even though every week I say this is the week I get really toned) but I hate my thighs & butt. I am not heavy by any means but the jell-O like feel to them & the cottage cheese look are driving me crazy. Everything just shakes, you know what I mean? I want to be tight & toned-like Jennifer Beal in the Blade movie. And don't get me started on my boobs-they are so saggy. DH says once I start weight training they will lift. But let's be honest, they're not going to lift that much.

Great thread, Jenn; felt good to get that out.
EverlovingEv Posted:

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Posted by PeteysBride


Posted by EverlovingEv

I think you and I have a very similar body type. Take a look at my wedding pics - my stomach is super flat and I never do crunches or anything like that. My butt and thighs have never been small and I've come to term with that

But I've put on about 7lbs after the wedding and for some f*cked up reason, the weight went into my tummy and now I have a little something something there too!!! I hate it!!!!!!!

I went to the gym two days in a row and I'm going to continue to go daily until I lose the 7lb.

Good Luck to you!!



YES! I can deal with the booty and the thighs-I will never look anything less than 'athletic' even if I diet from here to Doomsday and excercsie like a fiend. But I can deal with that if the belly would flatten out!

I am getting little tiny handles-soooo small but I see them and KNOW they are there-its a subtle slope. Its KILLING me. My tummy used to be concave!

I went to the gym this morning and going tomorrow and Friday too. Good luck to you too!



Don't worry sweetie! We'll beat the belly!!! I really need to become more active and lose this disgusting post wedding weight.
davenjess Posted:

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my stomach...not only is it too big - but i have a TON of internal stomach issues. i have a duodoneal ulcer, ibs-d, a history of acid reflux....

Athee07 Posted:

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my stomach..... ive been trying to loose weight but with the PCOS and everything its very hard- but no excuses- Ive got to get myself back on track

SusiBtoM Posted:

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Jenn, you crack me up.

I'm by no means a skinny minny.
I have issues with my
(1) Chest. It's a freakin shelf, a repository for food crumbs and the occasional drip. I have officially turned into my mother. When I do lose weight, the girls remain as is. A shelf.
(2) the ring around my waist, comprised of the belly and the 'love' handles. How these are called love handles boggles my mind. Blech. Although these hip shelves did help to keep my wedding dress from falling down, the corset sort of sat right on top.

One of these days I shall get myself together and do all the stuff I promised I would by the time I turned 40.
I'm 41 now.......
cookiemonster Posted:

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Posted by SusiBtoM

(1) Chest. It's a freakin shelf, a repository for food crumbs and the occasional drip. I have officially turned into my mother.



OMG Susi

I think you girls are being too hard on yourselves but then again we are our own worst critics!! I hate my upper thighs. I have also had a naturally flat stomach but not toned or concave by any means. I used to drive myself crazy trying to work out problem areas and when I didn't see results I'd give up. Now I'm focused on eating well and exercising just to be healthy and I'm starting to feel better about what I look like. I realized that I had unrealistic expectations for a long time and I should try to look the best that I can instead of trying to look the best that someone else can. Still an uphill battle but hey, uphill helps the thighs
SusiBtoM Posted:

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Posted by cookiemonster


Posted by SusiBtoM

(1) Chest. It's a freakin shelf, a repository for food crumbs and the occasional drip. I have officially turned into my mother.



OMG Susi

I think you girls are being too hard on yourselves but then again we are our own worst critics!! I hate my upper thighs. I have also had a naturally flat stomach but not toned or concave by any means. I used to drive myself crazy trying to work out problem areas and when I didn't see results I'd give up. Now I'm focused on eating well and exercising just to be healthy and I'm starting to feel better about what I look like. I realized that I had unrealistic expectations for a long time and I should try to look the best that I can instead of trying to look the best that someone else can. Still an uphill battle but hey, uphill helps the thighs



DH likes my shelf

I am a big girl, but I am healthy. That I think is the most important aspect. I eat right, and don't go crazy over junk food. My weakness is chocolate and ice cream, but I do limit that to a treat instead of a daily occurrance. I will never be super thin, it's just not part of my body structure. I will always struggle with my weight.

I like me for who I am.
PegaLega Posted:

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My asss definitely. I used to really not have much of one-just alittle one...since the wedding not only has it gotten bigger but now its lower

EverlovingEv Posted:

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Posted by PegaLega

My asss definitely. I used to really not have much of one-just alittle one...since the wedding not only has it gotten bigger but now its lower



How long can you go?
PattyK Posted:

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I would have to say my tummy and my thighs.

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