who gained more weight since you were married

Original post by janwinterbridejoy

Feb 21, 2005 04:45 PM

you or your dh ? i think we are about equal although he is losing his faster then im losing mine

swags1016 Posted: Feb 21, 2005 06:46 PM

Re: who gained more weight since you were married

Posted by janwinterbridejoy

Posted by swags1016

Considering I am pregnant - me!

you still look beautiful and babies dont count as weight

edited for spelling

Aw thanks Joy But the answer would still beme I think. After my miscarriage last Feb I put on some weight that I never took off before I got preggo again. He is gaining weight, infact he has gained almost 50 lbs since the wedding but he was way too skinny at the wedding I think he was 153. So I don't count his 50lbs at all. He is at his highest weight now and I think he looks INCREDIBLE, before he looked sick- damn wedding stress!

LIJuneBride Posted: Feb 21, 2005 07:15 PM

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Posted by swags1016

Considering I am pregnant - me!

Me too!! DH is gaining 'sympathy weight' but I think I still have him beat. And he needed to gain a few pounds anyway - he has an incredible metabolism.

soon2bmrs2004 Posted: Feb 21, 2005 07:27 PM

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ME!!!! He actually has lost weight since the wedding. I hate men

smkkjm Posted: Feb 21, 2005 07:41 PM

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It suck i have put on 15 pounds and my husband nothing. It is so hard to lose it

Moehick Posted: Feb 21, 2005 08:12 PM

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Both of us

FeliciaDA Posted: Feb 21, 2005 10:03 PM

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DH and I both packed on some serious pounds after the wedding ..

I honestly don't know who has gained more since our wedding, but I know I have put on AT LEAST 15 pounds And lately it feels like even a little more since I also have been really bad about working out, on top of being put on medication that my doctor warned me would make me gain as well!

Since our engagement though, DH has probably gained more . At least before the wedding I was dieting and had lost 20 pounds, whereas he had put on weight up to and after the wedding

Sad part is we are both so sick of how we feel and look, but cannot seem to get on track. We love to eat and are such a bad influence on one another !!

LisaT Posted: Feb 21, 2005 10:31 PM

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I don't think either of us has gained weight...

sassy2611 Posted: Feb 21, 2005 11:08 PM

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Me and DH didn't gain weight after the wedding and then i found out i am PG and both of us have put on. I am hoping once the kid is born i will go back to the size i was after the wedding.

Stefanie Posted: Feb 21, 2005 11:31 PM

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Definately my DH has gained the weight.

I, on the other hand, am pregnant right now so I have an excuse!!

Jen_n_Dale Posted: Feb 22, 2005 01:19 AM

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First it was Dale now he lost it all and then some. Now I am heavier.

Sweetd Posted: Feb 22, 2005 09:31 AM

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Well, technically I am back to the weight I was a few months before the wedding. I had lost about 6 pounds. Unfortunately, I have gained about 4. I think I was just stressed and nervous about the wedding and I had lost weight. This is the weight I have been for years. I don't think I'll gain any more.

As for DH, he gained a few pounds before the wedding and now after the wedding he has lost a few pounds. I don't get it, isn't it usually the other way around???

KathleenG Posted: Feb 22, 2005 10:10 AM

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We are both chubsters. I threw out the scale so I actually have no idea what I weigh. I would say at least 15 for me since the wedding. I keep on meaning to lose weight but with so much stress right now it is hard to focus.

juju Posted: Feb 22, 2005 10:13 AM

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Kathleen, we too are chubsters. We both gained so much weight. I have not gone on the scale in a while b/c I am so disgusted.

lorsin Posted: Feb 22, 2005 10:20 AM

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Yes - I am the fatty in my relationship. I've gained 17 pounds since the wedding.

It was too easy to get back on the piggy train after the wedding. First it was the HM, then Thanksgiving, then Christmas, then New Year's and Superbowl parties. Ugh!!

I'm disgusted with myself, so I rejoined WW (dropped it before the wedding because I had lost 30 pounds and thought I could keep it off on my own).

Hopefully I can stick with it until I get pregnant so I am in good shape.

Anniegrl Posted: Feb 22, 2005 10:30 AM

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Him! I don't know how much he's gained exactly, but he's got a little spare tire! He's been pretty good about going to the gym with me lately. Now all he has to do is watch what he eats. He blames me and my good cooking for his weight gain. I'll take that compliment!

tourist Posted: Feb 22, 2005 10:47 AM

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I have been gaining weight since about when we got engaged.
It has gotten worse lately.
DH actually lost a little weight (and he was underweight to start with) . .

CaCRmr Posted: Feb 22, 2005 11:43 AM

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Posted by Jax430

Definitely me!! DH doesn't gain weight...ever...

Yea, DH had NEVER gained a pound and he eats like an elephant. Me on the other hand...well.... I don't eat like an elephant but I have gained a few pounds since we got married.

VickiC Posted: Feb 22, 2005 12:40 PM

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We've actually both have lost weight since we've gotten married. I weigh less now than I did at the wedding.

corinne7477 Posted: Feb 22, 2005 02:55 PM

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i put on 15-20 lbs and thats what my husband lost. he had the flu and lost 5 and the other 10 was stress. ive been going to the gym but it doesnt seem to help.