Would you be pissed if your friend got engaged and didnt tell you? w/ update
Original post by Just Cindy
My bm got engaged to DH's gm and no call or anything. They got engaged in venezuela on NYE and got back yesterday. She had time to post her status change on fb and tell one of my other friends on fb that she met once at my wedding but didnt tell me. I am actually a little hurt. I texted her and left her a voicemail but thats all I am doing. If she doesnt respond then oh wells.
What do you think?
allegracristina
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Re: Would you be pissed if your friend got engaged and didnt tell you?
Posted by Just Cindy
Well it would be different if we were casual friends but she was my BM and I was the one who introduced my friend now her fiance to her. I called all my friends when I got engaged. If we were casual friends then I understand but not a close friend. I could never do that to her or any of my friends. Its strange thats all.
That's a bit strange to me if she was your bm not to call. But honestly, everyone is different. Just because you or I would call doesn't mean that person will do the same in the moment. Shiit I called my moh the DAY AFTER we got engaged and asked her to be my moh!!! I don't know that's just me. I do think it's strange but again everyone is different.
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Posted by KerriJohnS
IDK. I mean does she really have to call each and every single friend of hers? These days FB takes over texting and calling anyway. i think she probabyl figured you would see it on FB.
I HIGHLY doubt this girl was like 'yay I'm engaged! Now I'm going to make it a point to NOT tell Cindy personally'. I highly doubt it was malicious and I kind of feel you are just being sensitive. she probably wasn't thinking about calling everyone like that.
Do you guys normally talk daily?
ITA with you here!
Just Cindy
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Well I didnt realize she was not in the country yet...I thought she got back yesterday...she extended her trip and just got back today and texted me that she got engaged. She changed her fb status right before she left. I was the 1st person she told in the USA. So I was overreacting and I feel better now
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Posted by Just Cindy
Well I didnt realize she was not in the country yet...I thought she got back yesterday...she extended her trip and just got back today and texted me that she got engaged. She changed her fb status right before she left. I was the 1st person she told in the USA. So I was overreacting and I feel better now
Awwww! Glad she called you!
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Posted by Just Cindy
Well I didnt realize she was not in the country yet...I thought she got back yesterday...she extended her trip and just got back today and texted me that she got engaged. She changed her fb status right before she left. I was the 1st person she told in the USA. So I was overreacting and I feel better now
