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Summertimegal424 Posted: May 07, 2010 07:54 PM

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Would you tell your DH if someone tried to kiss you while you were away on vacation?

story...we were at a bar at the hotel and everyone was getting crunnked! this guy was offering to buy me drinks, wanted to chat and i literally wouldn't give him the TIME OF DAY! then he grabbed my arm pulled me close and tried to plant a big one on my LIPS! ...his slips slightly touched mine, i was able to pull away quickly and scream at him that im married, and of course he was like..o who cares,UGGGGGH

so anways my friend with me was like dont tell him ..blah blah blah and i was like no i have to tell him i dont EVER keep any secrets from him

end of story- i eneded up telling DH yesterday the story and he actually was shocked that it happen, but i could tell he was happy i told him

so my question is would you keep a 'what happens on a vacation ...stays on a vacation? or would you tell your DH,

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: May 07, 2010 08:28 PM

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Yes I would tell him..I think you did the right thing

Jess and Jon Posted: May 07, 2010 08:37 PM

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YES- our foundation is honesty for better or worse!

EmiNoa628 Posted: May 07, 2010 08:49 PM

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I would .. DH is my best friend I could talk to him about anything he understands he has a FABULOUS wife ... So there are going to be men that are going to feel attracted and the same with him. But being honest and true to one another is what matters. I think you did just fine .

MirabellaNYC Posted: May 07, 2010 08:51 PM

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I would tell him................honesty is the best policy.

scatteredx12 Posted: May 07, 2010 08:52 PM

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Yes! I think you def did the right thing!! I broke up with my ex to be with DH years ago and right when DH and I started seeing each other, I hung out with my ex one last time because he wanted to talk, and at the end of the night, he had kissed me and asked if we could sleep together one last time. I told him no and left. I went straight to DH's house and told him everything, and although I'm sure he didn't want to hear that, he was appreciate that I was so honest with him.

MrsCM Posted: May 07, 2010 09:05 PM

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Yes. Because if it was ever mentioned later it would seem like you had something to hide.

MoochsWifey Posted: May 07, 2010 09:13 PM

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Absolutely! I would never want it to come up at a later date and him to think I didn't tell him originally because something more happened.

Tomlaur0808 Posted: May 07, 2010 09:15 PM

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Posted by MrsCM

Yes. Because if it was ever mentioned later it would seem like you had something to hide.

ITA

gina409 Posted: May 07, 2010 09:41 PM

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im a biotch i would tell him and then say..i stil got it

EmiNoa628 Posted: May 07, 2010 10:01 PM

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Posted by gina409

im a biotch i would tell him and then say..i stil got it

Yuppppp

NikkiR515 Posted: May 07, 2010 10:07 PM

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Posted by gina409

im a biotch i would tell him and then say..i stil got it

I would def tell... I think the guilt would eat me alive if I didn't tell even though I know I didn't do anything wrong.

Alexandra17 Posted: May 07, 2010 10:29 PM

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yeah he would be pissed but I would be honest

grkbarbie Posted: May 07, 2010 10:38 PM

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deff.

u did the right thing

luvabul Posted: May 07, 2010 10:44 PM

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yup I would! u did the right thing!

CloudNine Posted: May 07, 2010 10:48 PM

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i woud totally tell him. you didnt do anything wrong and its better to be honest

KittyGags Posted: May 07, 2010 11:10 PM

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This is something I probably wouldn't ever mention. Sorry! I just don't see the point and it would lead to him being jealous anytime I was out without him--which I am--often. I also probably wouldn't have let the guy buy me drinks or spoken to him at all, but I'm a biznitch like that, haha.

Meant nothing, nothing really happened and its not worth even mentioning.

Just my 2 pennies.

AugustBridein09 Posted: May 07, 2010 11:21 PM

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I would tell him b/c to be honest if the same thing happened to him I would want to know...plus I'd be so proud of him that he felt comfortable enough to tell me about it.