Would you tell your DH if someone tried to kiss you while you were away on vacation?
story...we were at a bar at the hotel and everyone was getting crunnked! this guy was offering to buy me drinks, wanted to chat and i literally wouldn't give him the TIME OF DAY! then he grabbed my arm pulled me close and tried to plant a big one on my LIPS! ...his slips slightly touched mine, i was able to pull away quickly and scream at him that im married, and of course he was like..o who cares,UGGGGGH
so anways my friend with me was like dont tell him ..blah blah blah and i was like no i have to tell him i dont EVER keep any secrets from him
end of story- i eneded up telling DH yesterday the story and he actually was shocked that it happen, but i could tell he was happy i told him
so my question is would you keep a 'what happens on a vacation ...stays on a vacation? or would you tell your DH,
Relish21
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I would tell him.... maybe not about the lips touching but that some guy grabbed u and tried to smooch but you pushed him away just in time!!
dazies1011
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Posted by gina409
im a biotch i would tell him and then say..i stil got it
i would do the same
IrishBrideASmiling
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See if I told DH the whole story he would get mad that I even let another guy buy me a drink. Like KittyGags said, Im a biatch too and would have probably told the guy to go f-off as well.
I know my DH and he would have said I was leading the guy on when I accepted the drink from the guy. I mean there are wives out there that dont care and would just hook up with random guys on vacation, so you cant really blame the guy for trying.
If the situation happened to me, I would end up telling DH the full story. We dont keep any secrets from each other (that I know of anyway lol)
VickiR510
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Yes i would tell him. He knows no guy would ever get their lips on mine. That is if they want to keep their face! lol
We just got back from Vegas & my poor hubby had to deal with several morons who blatantly hit on me right in front of him & knew i was married to him. Guys are so ridiculous. Then to top it off one of the guys then tried to shake DH's hand & told him what a good job he did. I thought Dh was gonna kill him. But thankfully i have a mature man.
MrsDtoBe09
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I definitely would! I wouldn't want him finding out sometime later because I felt guilty/friend slipped or something like that. You definitely did the right thing!
coldasice217
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I honestly don't know what I would do.
Part of me would tell DH, but more in a taunting way. Sometimes, he makes me feel really crappy about myself and the way I look, and a part of me would like for him to know if other people find me attractive. Like, I tell him when guys in the produce department try to pick me up by offering the 'best peppers' to me Obviously, this is a different scenario, but same principle.
But then the other part of me wouldn't tell him, because he'd get all pissy and moody about it, and if nothing happened, then why should I have to catch his tude about it for months. But I also wouldn't have 'encouraged' the guy at all, and iced his out like I usually do with people...and you can bet that I would have socked him in the face after he pulled that on me.
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I would def tell him bc me and Dh are gossip queens to each other and god forbid that story comes up with your friends in front of him at a later date such as 'Remember when that creep tried to kiss you' DH should hear it from you the 1st time
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I would tell him. Secrets have a way of always coming out even when you try your best to hide them. And with something like this, even though you were not at fault if you tried to hide it, it would make you look guilty.
MrsHandsome2Be
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Yes. Because if it was ever mentioned later it would seem like you had something to hide.
ITA!
LadyDuda81509
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I would tell him!! it makes it like there was something you did wrong if you keep it from him... and you didnt! he would be more mad i feel if he found out and you didnt tell him.
i guess this is kinda different, but i had a dream that i was about to cheat on him with robert pattinson! LOL and i woke up and actually felt guilty about it so i told him! then i made sure to add him to my celebrity list of what celebrities you are alowed to do if you had the chance! hahahahahaha!
sorry anyways i think its a good thing you told him.
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Posted by KittyGags
This is something I probably wouldn't ever mention. Sorry! I just don't see the point and it would lead to him being jealous anytime I was out without him--which I am--often. I also probably wouldn't have let the guy buy me drinks or spoken to him at all, but I'm a biznitch like that, haha.
Meant nothing, nothing really happened and its not worth even mentioning.
