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WWYD?????
barbtony Posted: Feb 09, 2011 12:09 PM+
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WWYD?????

I'll try to make this as short as possible:

I hold an executive position on the Board of Directors of a Homeowners Assoc. I have received nothing but problems with an employee of the Association and my gut says problem will never get resolved. My executive position requires me to deal with this employee continually.

Do I:

A - Resign my executive position but remain on the Board, which will alleviate my dealing with this employee

OR

B - Resign completely.

Thank you in advance!
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MrsSx2 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 12:16 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????

I would choose A. If you really want to still have your opinions heard as a board member, then stay on...since your interactions with this d-bag will be more limited.
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Byrne2Be Posted: Feb 09, 2011 12:18 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????


Posted by MrsSx2

I would choose A. If you really want to still have your opinions heard as a board member, then stay on...since your interactions with this d-bag will be more limited.



This!

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Future Mrs H Posted: Feb 09, 2011 12:23 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????


Posted by Byrne2Be


Posted by MrsSx2

I would choose A. If you really want to still have your opinions heard as a board member, then stay on...since your interactions with this d-bag will be more limited.



This!




i also agree with this!
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cateydee Posted: Feb 09, 2011 12:45 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????

i'd do option A but why won't the issue get resolved?
Will you have a problem finding a replacment for your position? (we are dealing with this issue right now)
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ourwedding9510 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 12:47 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????


Posted by Future Mrs H


Posted by Byrne2Be


Posted by MrsSx2

I would choose A. If you really want to still have your opinions heard as a board member, then stay on...since your interactions with this d-bag will be more limited.



This!




i also agree with this!



I also agree!
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barbtony Posted: Feb 09, 2011 12:50 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????


Posted by cateydee

i'd do option A but why won't the issue get resolved?
Will you have a problem finding a replacment for your position? (we are dealing with this issue right now)



The issue may get resolved at some point, however, its been over a year with the same issue going on and everyone tip toes around this employee. I'm sure there wouldn't be a problem finding a replacement for her position.

As far as my replacement, wouldn't really be my problem, but I'm sure its doable.
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CarolAnn721 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 02:07 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????

Make the annoying employee 'disappear'
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barbtony Posted: Feb 09, 2011 02:24 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????


Posted by CarolAnn721

Make the annoying employee 'disappear'



Now don't you think that I've already thought of that
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Becca2010 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 02:50 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????


Posted by MrsSx2

I would choose A. If you really want to still have your opinions heard as a board member, then stay on...since your interactions with this d-bag will be more limited.



ITA! A!
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NYYankeeGirl72 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 02:58 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????

I would say A.
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Ray8183 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 03:23 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????

I go with A.
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KatieG2010 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 04:29 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????

A
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Rosalind_75 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 04:31 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????

i would go with a

if it still blows

go with b

good luck
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mariedsgn Posted: Feb 09, 2011 04:55 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????

a - but if it is still annoying then do B
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SummerBride10 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 05:11 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????

I'd go with A.
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bride2be1012 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 08:12 PM+
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Re: WWYD?????

A
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