Re: holiday/family stress finally caught up to me...
just FYI...DH and I decided to leave late on 12/24...so that we would 'miss' the xmas eve party...well we were at his moms house and she and DH's nanny came in PISSED OFF!!!
they went to B/SIL's and when they got there her son greeted them...my SIL's brother and wife greeted them...my SIL's father greeted them...did my SIL??!! NO...she didn't say hello to them for ONE HOUR!!! what is her problem...at least there is more ammo out against her...
so my BIL called on 12/25 and my MIL is PISSED at him...he even made up an excuse for her!!! that she was busy with other people that she couldn't say hello!!! WTF???
She is in deep water...DH and MIL have cut back there fighting with her...to spare my BIL...but they told me that I was right and that I am bringing back their backbone and that they are happy that I am standing up to her...and that they have a second wind now...
I'm just sad that I didn't get to see my nieces and nephew...
anna
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Re: holiday/family stress finally caught up to me...
WOW Erica, as they say 'there's one (or two or three ) in every family.
I think you were very tactful and respectful about everything
Im sure you can make up your birthday celebration with your friends another time.
Cindy
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Sorry to hear you went through all this. All I can say is just be happy that you are not the one having the problems with your inlaws. As long as everything is fine between you and them, all is fine. Since they see SIL for who she is, then I dont think you should worry about this woman any longer. It isnt like you are the only one with the problem with her.
ChristineC68
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Wow - she is some piece of work!!
I hope that this will end any future discussion about going over there for any occasion.
And I am really sorry that you didn't get to spend christmas or you birthday with your family or friends