Is there going to be men there? I think excl him due to money may be upsetting him. Maybe wait until you can get the flight to go together (Southwest just had a 1/2 off sale) or if he isn't upset, then go for it. I see nothing wrong with it. DH always tells me I need to get out and do things and gets mad when I don't call my friends. It really depends on his feelings and respecting his feelings.
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Posted by Jenn04
OK I guess there are MORE factors I am forgetting to mention:
-I have to leave the day after DH's bday -he doesnt have that many friends here to hang with when I am gone -he travels alot and will be gone 3 days before I leave (like Sun-Wed and I would leave Sat) - and yes the money is the biggest factor....its not cheap to go to vegas
I may go out like 1 night and dinner and drinks and stuff but nothing crazy. I dont think hes worried about that but I just feel bad running off the vegas and all of the above things. I am leaning toward not going at this point.....but I still really kinda do want to go if you know what I mean.
I don't have many friends, and DH is still going lol I can entertain myself. I understand that you may feel bad leaving him home alone, but you are a human being, and you need to get away once in a while alone. I think if money is the biggest factor, you should put this off until you know that money isn't the main reason you are hesitating to go.
Of course you still want to go, who wouldn't. I don't blame you at all for feeling that way, but I think you may regret going if money is tight.
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OK I guess there are MORE factors I am forgetting to mention:
-I have to leave the day after DH's bday -he doesnt have that many friends here to hang with when I am gone -he travels alot and will be gone 3 days before I leave (like Sun-Wed and I would leave Sat) - and yes the money is the biggest factor....its not cheap to go to vegas
I may go out like 1 night and dinner and drinks and stuff but nothing crazy. I dont think hes worried about that but I just feel bad running off the vegas and all of the above things. I am leaning toward not going at this point.....but I still really kinda do want to go if you know what I mean.
I think if you talk to DH and he is ok with you going on the trip you should go. I think the fact that you are considering not going makes me think maybe you are a little uncomfortable with going while you won't see him that much before you leave, and its right around his birthday and its expensive. Maybe, you just need some more time to think about it and see what you really want to do.
Jenn04
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Thanks...I am definitely going to keep thinking about it and talk to him again and will update you guys later!
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I dont think theres anything wrong with going away without your DH. You still have your own life and if he's okay with it then its fine. DH is going to Vegas for a bachelor party but if he wanted to go with just the boys I wouldnt have a problem with it.
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If money is the biggest issue, then I would rethink it. I know you really really want to go, but maybe not this time. Sorry if you don't like my answer, but it's jmo
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If it would upset him, even in the slightest, I wouldn't go. It's not like going to see a movie without him.
I am planning a cruise with just my girlfriend (she's married as well) and DH is cool with it, but if he wasn't - I definitely wouldn't go.
