Xpost: TY card help!

SIL was a BM in our wedding. Out of her household, only she came to NY for our wedding. BIL and their kids didn't come to the wedding. SIL didn't give a gift. So, on my thank you card..I should just send one for her right...not including her husbands or kids names...right? I wrote it out yesterday and it looked funny. DH wants me to thank them all...but what exactly would I be thanking BIL and the kids for?

Is this right?

since she didn't give a gift, i would agree with you and say to just thank her and not the hubby & kids.

but honestly, i don't think it'd be a huge deal if you wrote their names there too ... they might appreciate it.