Relationship Tip # 2 - Whose Home for the Holidays?
November 30, 2012
The holidays are great times but they can also be stressful too! Determining where to go for the holidays is something that every couple has to deal with. So the big question is do you celebrate the holidays with your family or his?
The most important thing is that you and your fiance spend the holidays together. Both families need to understand that it is just as important for you to spend the holidays with your fiance as it is to spend the holiday with your family.
Part of being engaged and married is about compromise and deciding how to handle situations like this.
Talk to your fiance about different options for celebrating the holidays and decide together how and where you want to spend the holidays. What about alternating holidays between your family and his family? What about celebrating the holiday the week before or after the actual holiday?
Once you have decided how you are going to spend the holidays do not feel guilty if someone is less than thrilled with your decision. Remember you cannot make everyone happy all the time, and at the end of the day if all else fails there is always next year!
Enjoy the holidays!
Want more information, have a question or comment, please feel free to contact me and visit my website at www.coachmichellebianco.com
The most important thing is that you and your fiance spend the holidays together. Both families need to understand that it is just as important for you to spend the holidays with your fiance as it is to spend the holiday with your family.
Part of being engaged and married is about compromise and deciding how to handle situations like this.
Talk to your fiance about different options for celebrating the holidays and decide together how and where you want to spend the holidays. What about alternating holidays between your family and his family? What about celebrating the holiday the week before or after the actual holiday?
Once you have decided how you are going to spend the holidays do not feel guilty if someone is less than thrilled with your decision. Remember you cannot make everyone happy all the time, and at the end of the day if all else fails there is always next year!
Enjoy the holidays!
Want more information, have a question or comment, please feel free to contact me and visit my website at www.coachmichellebianco.com
