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Posted by coldasice217
That is beyond effed up. If anything, they shouldn't have invited either of your brothers, to invite one and not the other is absurd. I would say no for yourself and your husband, and hope that your parents and one brother say no as well, and do not send a gift. That's ridiculous.
Def screwed up! I have a cousin who picks and choose cousins to invite. She will invite me and not my other Sisters. Talk about F'd up!
That's horrible. And they did not give you a gift? I would not go.
Posted by coldasice217
That is beyond effed up. If anything, they shouldn't have invited either of your brothers, to invite one and not the other is absurd. I would say no for yourself and your husband, and hope that your parents and one brother say no as well, and do not send a gift. That's ridiculous.
Posted by las1
That's horrible. And they did not give you a gift? I would not go.
Posted by ace730
Ok, just to play devil's advocate, we had to make the cut list somewhere because our hall is small so we decided that we were not going to be able to invite anyone under 21. So yes sometimes we did invite half of a family due to our cut off. However, everyone knew the circumstances and they were understanding. I wonder if they are doing the same thing???????
All I know is that I wouldnt attend and I would hope your parents wouldnt either.
My advice to your parents would be to respond no or respond that only they are going. If your parents respond no to the wedding then you should call her or send her an email telling her that you and your husband have to change your RSVP to a no. I wouldn't just not show up because I think about my wedding day and if people were to rsvp yes and not show up I would be sooo pissed.
Wow! now I've seen it all... In my opinion if they couldn't invite both brothers they should have only invited your parents, people would understand that, not oh sorry michael, we're all going but you weren't invited... Honestly, if it were me I wouldn't go and since they didn't send you anything, I wouldn't bother to send a gift either... If I was a more tolerable person and they were good friends of mine, then if I was you're parents and they wanted to go, I would RSVP for just the two of them and decline for your brother that was invited.
Posted by Juhgail
Want to piss her off?
If the RSVP's ae going to mommy and daddy's house.. (and not the bride)
your parents should RSVP for all 4 of them!!!!!
