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08'ers...are you pregnant or trying?

MrsD71208 Posted:

08'ers...are you pregnant or trying?

Hearing about a couple who are makes me wonder just how many others are doing it too lol If you feel this is too personal, please don't answer. I don't want to pry into anyone's personal business, just know that some people enjoy sharing this stuff.

So, are you trying, trying really hard or possibly pregnant right now? For you January brides, will you try on your HM? 08 babies! How exciting!
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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I'm not trying and I wont be for a while, I want a couple of years of marital bliss with just me and FH

2007 Crescent Bride Posted:

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No way!! hahaha I am done. One is enough. But being a mom is the best thing in the world
Mrs.D08 Posted:

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We are not trying. We want to wait about two years, but a few people think we will have a honeymoon baby. FMIL had a dream I had twins
missexcited Posted:

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Posted by 2007 Crescent Bride

No way!! hahaha I am done. One is enough. But being a mom is the best thing in the world



I kinda feel the same way, but I don't want my son to be lonely.
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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I'm not trying for a while..I want to really enjoy our marriage and each others company first..and be able to travel..Im too selfish right now, and when you have children all your time is devoted to them! so with that said I'm probably waiting 2-3 yrs +

davenjess Posted:

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we picked a date to start trying - that's all....it's our 6 year anniversary!

ItalianBride428 Posted:

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we prolly arent going to try for at least a year after we are married...

but who knows....
angl2001 Posted:

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i am not allowed until we r married :(
Is it MAY YET?!?!?!?!?
Eternalyyourz Posted:

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We are not trying... but do talk about it for the future. I think we decided to start trying after being married for about a year. My FH says he will start trying as soon as we own a house, not just live in an apartment! LOL

iwannabmrsD Posted:

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we're pregnant! . we decided not to wait because he really wanted a baby and I sort of wanted to do it now so i can focus on my career. I'll be going into administration in the next year or so, and once I do, it'll be three years before i get my tenure and we can even consider it again.also my first is 7 and she's in NEED of a sibling.. even 7 yrs younger than her.. she needs someone..

plus when i turn 35 i'm getting a tummy tuck so whatever hasn't popped out by then aint' gonna be popping!


oh wanted to add... if u are going to try before the wedding, do it as close to the wedding date as possible..and not for the obvious belly growth reasons.. i've found over hte past few weeks, that i'm bitter, hostile and overall not a very nice person.. and poor fh is taking the brunt of it all. i have no energy to do the 'wedding stuff' that needs to get done, and i get pissed at him for not doing it (not that i bothered to tell him it needed to be done..) it's hard.. it's REALLY REALLY HARD!
Mrs.D08 Posted:

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Posted by iwannabmrsD

we're pregnant! . we decided not to wait because he really wanted a baby and I sort of wanted to do it now so i can focus on my career. I'll be going into administration in the next year or so, and once I do, it'll be three years before i get my tenure and we can even consider it again.also my first is 7 and she's in NEED of a sibling.. even 7 yrs younger than her.. she needs someone..

plus when i turn 35 i'm getting a tummy tuck so whatever hasn't popped out by then aint' gonna be popping!


Congrats
MrsD71208 Posted:

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Posted by iwannabmrsD

we're pregnant! . we decided not to wait because he really wanted a baby and I sort of wanted to do it now so i can focus on my career. I'll be going into administration in the next year or so, and once I do, it'll be three years before i get my tenure and we can even consider it again.also my first is 7 and she's in NEED of a sibling.. even 7 yrs younger than her.. she needs someone..

plus when i turn 35 i'm getting a tummy tuck so whatever hasn't popped out by then aint' gonna be popping!



Yup, just remembered a little while ago that you are the first 08'er! That's what inspired me to find out if you would have some pregnant partners to chat with on here lol Congrats again!
mrsblesie2b Posted:

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I'm not trying..maybe in a year so I can become settled in my career first.....I graduate with my master's in august and have to do a fellowship year

DGoldfarb0776 Posted:

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I am not trying personally but we (FH and I) want to enjoy marital bliss for at least a year before we have a little bundle of joy- when we do tho FH is convinced that it WILL be a .
I told him to tell his 'boys' that!
Espo22 Posted:

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not trying and wont for a little while after the wedding

Smiley7092 Posted:

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I am SO not ready for kids yet. Even though me and FH have been dating for 9 years lol. I'm going to be 27 in feb, so I really should start kinda soon, but I'm too selfish right now to have kids lol. I don't get to see FH a lot because he works shifts and it will be even harder when we have kids. I think I want to enjoy at least a year of married life too before we even worry about having kids!

laura33 Posted:

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i am a Jan o8 bride i would like at least one full year with just husband and I but I am 32 and husband to be is 35 so waiting a year may not be the best thing so we might try right away

beachbum05 Posted:

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no.
kBr Posted:

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we're not 'trying' but.....

we're not not either.


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