CAN I SAY ON MY GOD!!! I HAVE SO MUCH GOING ON THIS YEAR, I CANT EVEN REMEMBER MY SELF HALF THE TIME.
I HAVE 4 WEDDINGS, NOT INCLUDING MINE IN OCTOBER
1-30TH B-DAY PARTY 2-40TH B-DAY PARTY MY MOMS 60TH PARTY 2-BABY SHOWERS & TO INCLUDE ALL THE BRIDAL SHOWERS & THE WORST IM IN 2 OF THE WEDDINGS...
I JUST HAD A QUESTION FOR YOU GIRLS: DO YOU THINK IM CRAZY FOR GETTING MAD AT MY COUSIN WHO IS GETTING MARRIED THE DAY BEFORE ME 10/6/06? WHICH WE ALL JUST FOUND OUT, THAT HE PLANNED! HE KNEW THAT, WE HAVE BEEN ENGAGED FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS...IM VERY UPSET & PISSED...
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I'd be pissed. Out of all the dates of the year they have to pick the day before yours? Who does that? As for the rest of your year - I don't envy you one bit. You have so much going on!
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yeah I would be upset.. that's hard for the family...
Katie&Chris2006
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Oh i'm so sorry. I would be mad too and would tell them to get away from my date!
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Posted by Annie95
I JUST HAD A QUESTION FOR YOU GIRLS: DO YOU THINK IM CRAZY FOR GETTING MAD AT MY COUSIN WHO IS GETTING MARRIED THE DAY BEFORE ME 10/6/06? WHICH WE ALL JUST FOUND OUT, THAT HE PLANNED! HE KNEW THAT, WE HAVE BEEN ENGAGED FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS...IM VERY UPSET & PISSED...
No, you have every right to be mad. You have had the date for much longer than they have, and they should have picked a different weekend to get married. Can you talk to him about it? Have they picked the hall yet? It may be hard for your families to attend two weddings in one weekend, especially for you since your wedding is the day after his
edited: whoops, I didn't realize you wrote in your original post that your cousin is male.
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Hey.. if anyone knows about crazy years, its me!!!!
I have:
Feb ; Bridal Shower Billy Joel Concert
March: Bridal Shoer Pre Cana
April: Bridal Shower
May : Bachelorette party for my cousin Bachelorette party for my FSIL My friend's bachelorette weekend
August : My bachelorette Party My wedding My honeymoon
Sept. Road trip upstate
Oct: My FMIL 50th b-day party
Busy year?? you bet.
As for your cousin booking their wedding the day before yours, I would be upset, but there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. People are going to do what they want REGARDLESS. Your family is going to have an awesome weekend though
Look on the bright side.. At least your celebrating Happy occassions
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I'd be mad too.
Maybride519
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Peronally....I would be PISSED!!!! And to be honest....I probably wouldn't go
milerose
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I would be really upset. I mean the day before your wedding. That is really selfish if you ask me!!!!
mka06
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you should be mad....... there's no reason for that!
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I would be really upset. I mean the day before your wedding. That is really selfish if you ask me!!!!
ITA I think that is EXTREMELY SELFISH
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i'd be very upset also. That is so selfish of him to do that... especially because you picked your date LONG time ago.
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If you have family coming from OOT, it'll be nice for them to attend both weddings in one trip though.
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You have EVERY right to be pissed. Who plans a wedding the day before someone elses in the family? That's craziness. Does your cousin live close by or would some people have to travel to a different state to attend his and then yours?
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I'd be pissed too! My cousin did that to her brother, when she wasn't even engaged yet! Her bro announced his date at dinner, and she got all nasty and was like, 'well, we're planning our date for 2 weeks after that.' I ended up not going to either wedding, but even my grandma who has $$ was pissed at her for being like that! But don't let your cousin take your thunder! You'll still have the respect of the family when it's all said and done!
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i'll be pissed too
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Wow, out of all the days of the year... the day BEFORE yours? Hmm.... seems like jealousy to me.
I know how you feel about a busy year... we have 6 weddings in '06 and 1 in '07 (so far)!
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I would be so pissed at my cousin!!!!!!!
reenielady
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I'd be mad. He is being very inconsiderate to the family.
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I would be mad also-heck I am mad at my friend who picked her date a few months before mine!