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1 BM down... (update)

SoontobeGallagher Posted:

1 BM down... (update)

So I asked one of my bridesmaid to step down last night. She texted, not called me like an adult and told me she can't go to Vegas (After she already gave me the money) because she does not know the other girls there and plus we have not hung out in a while. I told her well not everyone knows everyone but they are going there because I asked them too and they want to celebrate with me. This on and off about Vegas has been going on for like 6 months. I finally told her that her and I both know that she does not want to be in the wedding. Her and I were very close when I asked her but I guess we had a falling out that she does not want to repair. I told her I don't really see a lot of my girlfriends, but when I do we just pick up where we left off. So, then that was that and then today she texts me again, no call, just text (which is annoying) and tells me that I'm selfish and how her biggest mistake was being in the wedding party. Then she bad mouths FH! Now, all my friends love FH and they would tell me when we first started dating if they didn't. I told her that she has nerve bad mouthing him to me and only confirms my choice in asking her to step down. She then goes back and tells me that she can pick me apart by my insecurities but that would be too easy. That really pushed me over the edge and I stopped being nice miss girl and told her to go eff herself and to not talk to me ever again. Of course that didn't stop her, she just kept going on and on about how I'm just settling with lame FH, and all these other awful things.

I'm so sorry this is so long. I just started typing and this is what I got.

Thank you if you got this far...


*** It got so bad with her texting me like every second (After I stopped responded a long time ago) that I had to call AT&T and have her number blocked from contacting me.
AngnShaun Posted:

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Youre lucky to be rid of her!!! She sounds like a huge beotch!

bluj786 Posted:

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people just ****. but i have to say with this whole wedding process u really do learn who your real friends are. at least you dont have to deal with her stuff anymore. hang in there
SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted:

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Omg!! You poor thing!! F* her!! She was prob just gonna be a stick in the mud and bring the party down on the day of anyway!
I'm so sorry, how annoying!
SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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FUCKKK HERRRRR!!!! IM SO HAPPY YOU SPOKE UP! IM FURIOUS FOR YOU. I HAD TWO OF MY GIRLS STEP DOWN BECAUSE THEY JUST DIDNT CARE ABOUT ME. AND ONE OF THEM WAS A 'BEST FRIEND' OF 12 YEARS AND THE OTHER...MY FIRST COUSIN!

**** THESE GIRLS THAT DONT CARE ABOUT US! iM SO HAPPY YOU ARE RID OF YOUR BURDEN.

SORRY FOR ALL CAPS. I GOT CARRIED AWAY.


YAY FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


And im sorry if you are upset but you should not be. How dare her talk down to you and speak about your FH like that...
TraceySLP1 Posted:

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u don't need a friend like her. u made the right decision.....she proved that quickly!

enjoy ur time with ur friends who really care about u and eff that biotch :)
regy_k Posted:

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sheesh what a biatch
just be happy she's not in ur life anymore. who does that? speaking badly about ur FH. if she really had anything to say about u, she wouldnt be talking badly about ur FH

ppl do suk - fuk her!
runnerbride1023 Posted:

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don't waste your time with people like that. she is probably jealous of what you have.

FallBride2010 Posted:

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OMG. That is horrible. You are better of!!

JennandAnthony Posted:

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Thats crazy...Im sorry you had to go through that.....they say you find out who your true friends are when you are getting married,
I cant believe you had to block her number, you would think she got the hint when you didnt ans
Clover23 Posted:

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omg wat a douche!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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