FH's cousin has been dating this guy for almost a year now. FH and I have met him a 3 or 4 times and he's really nice (we're even FB friends).
But FH and I are only inviting guests for people who are engaged or married.
Do we invite FH's cousin's boyfriend?
ps: his cousin has 3 siblings (all single)
TIA
AdriandSteve
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how old is his cousin? If she's 21+ then yes.. I'd invite with date.
DaniandKen2010
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Since they are in what I consider a serious relationship then I feel they should be invited with a guest. JMO.
regy_k
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Posted by DaniandKen2010
Since they are in what I consider a serious relationship then I feel they should be invited with a guest. JMO.
ITA
christine2010
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Yes you should invite him. They are dating for a while & it sounds like you have been out with this person more then once. IMO it would be rude to not include the guy.
GiannisWifey
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yes he should be invited
Future Mrs H
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If they are in a serious relationship yes- but again if it was just a random guy she was bringing I say no
AwaitingAugust
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i guess i'm just afraid the other cousins would be offended.
FH's family has a way to blow everything out of proportion.
but you guys are right - i think it's only right that he be invited
MayBride2010
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Posted by DaniandKen2010
Since they are in what I consider a serious relationship then I feel they should be invited with a guest. JMO.
ITA
halfbaked
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I tink he should be invited, but that might open up a whole can of worms for you guys!
Lsorrent
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They're in a relationship. He should be invited.
jmgoncal
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I think he absolutely should be invited - if I were FH's cousin and my bf wasn't invited I'd be incredibly insulted.
CantWaitMrsH
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I think if you do for one you do for all. Wedding etiquette is of course all engaged or married couples are invited as such. Those in a serious relationships, meaning dating for more than 6 months and over the age of 21, are also invited with a guest. Those individuals who also do not know anyone else at the wedding are also invited with a guest. It will be up to them to choose to bring someone or not.
Its tricky! For us its more so having people not bring their kids. We are not having any children other than the children in the bridal party so we're going to have a seperate insert. Its a Saturday night wedding but it still has to be done! Craziness!
jackieee
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I would. I am inviting everyone with +1, but you have met her and they have been together a year. That is serious.
Lucky2010
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Posted by DaniandKen2010
Since they are in what I consider a serious relationship then I feel they should be invited with a guest. JMO.
Agree
SoonToBMrsC
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I would definitely invite him. I know that if I my FH didn't get invited with me when we were dating for a year I would've definitely beenbothered by this. A year to me is a pretty serious relationship.
