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1 week to go and more drama!!!
pinkgirl Posted: Oct 30, 2004 03:46 PM+
pinkgirl MEMBER SINCE: 9/03 TOTAL POSTS : 747 WEDDING DATE: Nov 06, 2004
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1 week to go and more drama!!!

My dad does insurance (health and life insurance) and mortgages and refinancing. He is remarried and has 2 babies. He also tries to help out my mom and sis. He also took a loan to pay for part of my wedding! He works SO hard to help everyone, it's not even fair! Anyway, my uncle has a business and instead of getting the insurance from my dad, he got it from a stranger!!! He also refinanced his house and used a stranger!!! My wedding is in a week and I am fuming mad at him!!!! SHould I say something or let it go? I am so confused
By the way, if anyone needs insurance or a mortgage...
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slwh2005 Posted: Oct 30, 2004 03:48 PM+
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Posted: Oct 30, 2004 03:48 PM bride-minus.png

Re: 1 week to go and more drama!!!

I would just let it go. It's really just between your dad & your uncle. JMO.
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LMFitz Posted: Oct 30, 2004 03:57 PM+
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Posted: Oct 30, 2004 03:57 PM bride-minus.png

Re: 1 week to go and more drama!!!

Let it go - you have enough good things to focus on. Don't get involved - it will only sidetrack your energy. Good luck!
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pinkgirl Posted: Oct 30, 2004 04:03 PM+
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Re: 1 week to go and more drama!!!

Oh but I am furious! I feel like I can't even look at him!
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Boop2704 Posted: Oct 30, 2004 05:36 PM+
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Posted: Oct 30, 2004 05:36 PM bride-minus.png

Re: 1 week to go and more drama!!!

I wouldn't say anything. You don't need any added stress, and saying something could cause bigger problems that could run into your day. If your really that upset, wait til after your wedding to say something to him. Sometimes people like to keep business and family seperate. Maybe he got a beter deal elsewhere. I am sure he did not do this to intentionally hurt you or your dad. Sorry you are so upset!!
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MamanDaddyof2 Posted: Oct 30, 2004 05:59 PM+
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Posted: Oct 30, 2004 05:59 PM bride-minus.png

Re: 1 week to go and more drama!!!

Try and let it go for now at least...it really is between your dad and your uncle...you dont need any stress and it would probably make things worse for your Dad
I agree that he should have went to your Dad not a stranger................I love my Daddy too he works sooo hard its not fair
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