13 Days to Go...I don't know if I'm gonna make it.
MJDoc12
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13 Days to Go...I don't know if I'm gonna make it.
my official countdown as i type this says: MJDoc12 Wedding Countdown 12 Days 21 Hours 13 Minutes 39 Seconds
and i have soooo much to do....it is taking all the strength in the world for me not to burst into tears at work. moving in with FH, 2 wks before our wedding was the stupidest fking idea ever. i have sooooo much to do in our apt. to get it together...and on top of that i have so much wedding stuff that's not done.
i want to scream. i know that it will all work out--but right now at this very moment...it feels like too much. i just want to be married.
mskittynj
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hunny don't worry about what you have to do in the apartment, I am sure a lot of things can wait! XOXOXO Kitty
Ericab1980
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aww..I know it may be overwhelming but think of the brightside..soon you'll be relaxing with a drink..
and you'll be a Mrs...
SeptBride70
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I'm here whenever you need me and I'll paint, clean, wrap, prostitute myself- whatever you need!
kris01
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you WILL make it!!!!!! don't worry everything will be done and you have your LIW girls to help you if needed!!!
Ericab1980
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I would like to add that FH came up with the idea of moving in July 1st I told him he was on crack when the wedding is July 14th..
then I felt bad as maybe it can be done..but nah..you're reaffirming that it'll be
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Posted by mskittynj
hunny don't worry about what you have to do in the apartment, I am sure a lot of things can wait! XOXOXO Kitty
exactly....make a to do list and prioritize the things you HAVE to do for the wedding/before the wedding and the things that can wait until after the wedding. If you have to, plan out what you are going to do on what days. Once you start checking things off, you will feel sooo much better!
IlianaR
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If you need help holla!
Keep your chin up the day willl be here in no time!
jessandjimiswedding
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hun don't worry everything will work out.
queenb07
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Throw non-essential apartment stuff in a closet and focus on the wedding and honeymoon. You can always deal with it when you get back. And take a moment to have a good scream. It'll make you feel better. In fact, I'll join you in one right now since I'm in the middle of moving and planning hell.
We're all here for you
iamvocal72
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STOP!!! Take a breath, ask for help, take a sick day and go get a manicure. Seriously, don't let this time in your life pass you by in pain and anguish. It will all be OK!
Let the apartment GO! I know it is driving you crazy but it will be there in 11 days, your wedding however, WILL NOT BE!!!!! It's OK honey, it's all good!
MJDoc12
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Posted by iamvocal72
STOP!!! Take a breath, ask for help, take a sick day and go get a manicure. Seriously, don't let this time in your life pass you by in pain and anguish. It will all be OK!
Let the apartment GO! I know it is driving you crazy but it will be there in 11 days, your wedding however, WILL NOT BE!!!!! It's OK honey, it's all good!
i can't take a sick day---i work with my dad! and he's already PISSSED i'm marrying during his busy time of year (tax season!)
as for the apt., my bachelorette party...is being held there on saturday! it was the best option for everyone for the 'tamer' part of my party for the ppl who won't be going to any bars or clubs after dinner. so it HAS to be looking good in 4 days!
i'm gonna rip my hair out!
neener1211
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just do one room at a time. Back in November we moved FH into our apartment (haven't moved my stuff in yet) and we had everything moved that Saturday morning, and I had it all in it's proper place by Saturday night.
Then the next day was my shower, and I had to find a place for all of that stuff. I got that all put away that night.
It can be done, just do one room at a time. Give FH one box, and say, put it ALL away. Do that, box by box.
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Ok I have a confession to make. Never look under my bed or in my closet. I have been in my home for a year now and stil have not completely unpacked. So just stash stuff till after the wedding. This way it will look good for company and you can find homes for everything when you get back from the Hm. Then with the 'unpacking' out of the way you can focus on the wedding.
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Hang in there girl!!! you -can -do -it! hey why not gather up your BP and some friends order pizza and have some wine and bang this out??! at least that's what I would do
Marchbride07
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Everything will work out! Take a deep breath and take a shot of vodka when you get home!
Feel better!
tricia3381
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try not to worry about the apt. they're ur friends because of who are, not how clean ur apt is.
thelastresort
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You are a tough lady and you will so make it! If you don't there is no hope for the rest of us!
I agree with the other girls...you have closets, drawers and under the bed for a reason...to stuff crap in. Don't be ashamed to do it! And my last piece of advice: Put FH to work! Hang in there!!!
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Me and FH are trying to get our new apt. ready too and there is so much to get done and I get married SATURDAY! I am so tired and just want it to be done already! I would prioritize... do all the wedding stuff first. . . . .the aprtment stuff can wait...decorating and all that will come together and if it's not done before the wedding and HM, it will give you something to look forward to when you get back. Relax....it will get done!
2Be1
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I totally hear you I can only imagine how much I’ll be freaking out when my countdown is as close as yours. Don’t worry it will all be over soon and then you can breathe a major sigh of relief because you’ll finally be married
