First my cousin drops out then my other cousin (her sister) dropped out and the worst part is they lied about why they couldnt do it. (long story but trust me its effed up) They're my closest cousins! almost like sisters! I'm truly dissapointed!
The thing is I have a lot of guy friends! Not enough gf's. I have 11 guys! only 9 girls now and honestly if it werent for sil, sister, and some other cousins, i wouldnt have anyone to fill Bm spots. :(
I knew I shoudl have made more girl friends in college! :(
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I lost a bridesmaid a week before my wedding :( it totally scks. Hang in there.
Dont worry about the uneven #s. We had 8 guys and 6 girls. It didnt matter day of. We just doubled up on guys.
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Our bp is uneven but we didn't want to put just anyone in to even it out. During this whole wedding process you begin to see everyones true colors!
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thanks, im so glad you wrote this so I can show Fh is not so bad to double up! :)
AngnShaun
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my bp was uneven also...
MsRtoMrsK
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I have 8 girls and FH has 4 guys...as my FH says, LUCKY GUYS!!!
You want the people that are closest to you, not just 'seat fillers'!
sucks about the BM but dont worry about the uneven #'s. I have 2 MOH 8 BM 1 BM 12 GM 3 RB and 1 FG. ..... Talk about uneven!! LOL
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it sucks but dont worry about an uneven party. I know plenty of people who have had an uneven party and it was still a great day.
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you can have some guys walk solo then pair the rest up
no worries
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no worries, that sucks but you can double up the girls
have you favorite GM - big pimp'n :)
i've seen that PLENTY of times
agreed - you can just do this.
I'm so sorry you are going through this - especially with close family
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I AM SO SORRY CHICA.... =--( Si tuviese $ pa comprar vestido I woudl do it =)
Hang in there... Lo que importa is YOUR FH.... and the ppl who TRULY LOVE U will BE THERE FOR U...
U will see ppls true color in this weedding...
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awww im sorry dont stress though...my bp is not even bc i dont have many female friends either. i am having 3 girls and FH is having 5 guys.
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Im sorry love that really does suck! and shame on them for lying to you!!! thats awful especially if you girls are that close! They couldnt be honest? So wrong! BIG HUGS....
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ddouble up on the guys. but i'm sorry they both dropped out on you. just goes to show you really cares for you........
SoonToBeMrsCali
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Don't worry they didn't care enough to be there by your side.. True colors are showing through...
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So sorry this happened to you ... but try not to worry too much, the people who really care will be there come hell or high water! A similar situation happened to me, I know how much it sucks ...
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I am so sorry that you are dealing with this
I keep saying this, but my MOH is drama enough (my sister)- I knew we couldn't deal with any more!
Everything happens for a reason and the girls that deserve to be up there with you will be
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Aww I'm sorry hun! Don't worry about your party being uneven. We have 5 gm and 4 bm. I'm going to just double up.
