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*<3* QOTD 8/17 *<3*

First off I would like to thank Erin again for passing the tiara over to me!! You were a wonderful BOTW

Here is my first question... I hope you likey....

Do you feel that you have changed since you became engaged? Do you honestly feel that everything is about 'YOU' now and disregard others feeling because you are getting married? Has anyone told you that you have changed?

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Great question!
No, in fact, i've been told that I take people's feelings and ideas into account TOO much and that I should just do what I want!!!

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No, I don't feel like I have changed. I definitely don't think it is all about me. I know that it's our wedding, but I understand that everyone has their own life. Nobody has told me that I have changed either. I am definitely not going to be one of those bridezilla's who throws flowers on the ground and smashes cakes.

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I don't think I've changed, nor has anyone told me I have. I really have been trying hard not to make EVERYTHING about me or the wedding.

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I think i've learned to stand up for myself a little bit more. Nothing else really.

This past week or so i've become really excited cuz i realize that this wedding is actually mine!

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I don't think I have changed at all, just that my anal side has come out more then it was

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No, I don't think so. In fact I have been told more than once that people thought I was going to be wayyy worse and a total bridezilla... now we are still a year away but I just don't see it happening.

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People may consider me to be a Bridezilla but I am really just a perfectionist and a control freak. Anyway, I haven't changed much from being engaged, I am pretty much this way all the time
I have changed a bit, because I am a little more vocal in my needs and demands.

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Nah, I don't think I changed at all, and no one has told me I have. I try to keep the wedding talk limited with people, unless they ask of course, then I'm like a running faucet!!

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nah i don't think so.....although this wedding does consume my life now!

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Congrats, new BOTW!

I really don't think that I've changed at all - no one has told me I have and if there's one characteristic most of my friends have, it's brutal honesty. So I'm sure if I changed in any way, they'd be getting my rear in gear over it.

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I don't think I've changed much. I try not to talk about it too much (aside from LIW that is ). Planning has consumed my life but I don't verbalize alot of it to anyone because they will tell me 'I have plenty of time to worry about that' and it will just make me mad .

(...and btw, it is all about meeeeee jk)

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a lil but not much i got stronger

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i dont think i've changed since getting engaged. i think i consider other peoples feelings a lot more though now! :)

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i dont think ive changed at all. im pretty low-key. the only main difference is that i havent seen my friends as much, just because of vendor appointments and wedding shopping stuff...it really ***** up your time.

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no , i dont think i've changed and no one has told me I have. WHen im with friends and family I try not to bring up wedding planning, I wait for someone to ask about it that way it doesnt seem like its all i think about (even though it is )

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i'm still the same person just super stressed out.

i have been trying to stay calm and not getting too crazy but this whole thing is very stressful so its a little hard. i personally think up until recently i have been cool as a cucumber. but lately i have been a little hard to deal with.

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I think I am still me but I have changed in the sense that all I think about it the wedding and sometimes feel that that's almost all I talk about and people ask about it. My best friend is getting married nov 1st we were engaged 2 weeks apart and the both of us are non stop wedding mode almost always...but at the end of the day I'm still me and care about everyone's feelings :)

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i dont think i have changed in the sense that i think i am always right or whatever but i do think i have changed in other ways. I always thought that even if we got married we would stay in NYC for a few more years and not have kids till our 30s (we are 25 now)....but since being engaged I am feeling ready to move out of the city so we can get a house sooner than we had planned...and possibly have kids before 30--maybe 28 or so. I think i've just grown up and feel more ready to settle down and be a family.