So this has been something on my mind for a while and What a great way to ask but now!!
<3 What do you want to do for your bachelorette party? Is there anything you don't want to do??
What are you most comfortable and uncomfortable with FH doing?? Also, is there anything you want to do but may not be able to due to money reasons, like a trip to Vegas or anywhere else? <3
I have been so up in the air on what I want to do. First I was thinking of a Spa weekend and stay in NYC and go to a Club or a Rooftop Party-- But being that I am in NYC 5 days a week the thought of coming here for a weekend just annoys me LOL! So im thinking of going to Atlantic City and go to a Spa during the day and then a club at night. I want to go for 2 nights THat Friday night I want the people who Im closest with there and we will go out to dinner and just do something laid back. Just to spend time with the girls who mean the most to me. My mom and his mom will be included with that too. I think it would be nice for them to spend the night and then on day 2 they can do the Spa thing with us and then head home so we can get wild LOL!!!
As for FH I was so against strip clubs but I really dont care anymore- It just doesnt even faze me anymore and thats thanks to this site and other girls opinions on them on the BHB boards. I hold stuff in and dont talk about it and it boils up inside and Now I learn to say what I feel! Hes been dealing with me when Im so stressed and so annoying that I know in my heart he loves me so much that nothing will happen. You hear all these stories about the Groom hooking up with there Stripper LOL I know he wont. Im sure hell go to Atlantic City and when he goes there Ill be having my second bachelorette dinner LOL!!!
**~~** I get to pick a New BOTW on Sunday **~~**
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My family is planning to take me to Vegas for my bachelorette party. I'm not into strippers so I hope they do not get me any.
As for FH I really don't care what he does for his bachelor party. I trust him. He is also not into strippers so even if his friends got him strippers he would not do anything crazy.
2013Bride
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Honestly, I don't really care about a bachelorette party.... I'm good with just going to a spa somewhere and dinner and that's it. I'm definitely not down for a stripper and I know my friends aren't either... so I'm good haha
Regarding my fiance', I know for a fact he has no interest in strip clubs and he's probably going to do what they were supposed to do for his best friend's bachelor party (it was cancelled due to Hurricane Irene and they had it the weekend before his wedding... womp womp) - Mets Game, dinner and a bar crawl in the city.
We're both pretty easy-going with this kind of stuff and I think the whole 'last night of freedom' is silly. I'm gonna go do what I want to do & have fun whether I'm married or not
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FH and I are having a joint party wknd in Vegas! We love it there plus we figured since we got engaged in Vegas it would be cute to have our bach parties there.
We are going to invite all our friends and BP. Whoever can make it we'll all hang out the wknd chillin by the pool, sight seeing, maybe some shows. 1 night the boys will go out on their own thing and us girls will do the same.
I really like that idea! The joint party weekend sounds awesome!
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I don't care what we do for my bachelorette party, but I would kind of like it to be a surprise or at least not planned by me - I'm so type A that no one has ever been able to surprise me before and it'd be fun. My girls are awesome and we've been friends since HS so I trust them and their judgment.
FH can have free reign to do whatever he likes, but the truth is he doesn't like strippers OR gambling so it'd probably be too boring. I tried to get him to go to a strip club with my friends once and he was grossed out. It's cute, and kinda funny at the same time, because I think his bachelor party will end up being zombie movies all night haha
Can't say that money will make a difference to anything I want to do, but if we gamble....I'll just say goodbye to the contents of my wallet. Went to AC for the first time this weekend and oh man I hemorrhaged money
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I have no idea! I should probably discuss this with my girls, huh?
I have an out-of-town Bridal Party, so I’m not sure when we could schedule it. It will probably have to be right before my wedding. I definitely want to go out and party! I like the idea of going away for a weekend – AC, Foxwoods, etc. One of my BMs may come to NY in July, so maybe I can plan for a party then. I’ll have 3 of my 5 girls.
As far as FH goes…I don’t care what he does. He’s a shy homebody, so I think it would be good if his brother and friends took him out and had fun. He deserves it. I’m not afraid of him going to a strip club. He’s always respectful and I know he will be on this one night.
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I really wanted to go to Miami or a cruise but I know it is going to be to expensive to go. We will probably wind up either going to Atlantic City. Who knows though. FH got a crazy group of guys so who knows. I completely trust him so I am not really worried about the strip club party. I am more afraid of him getting wasted and doing something stupid (in general) because his friends tell him to.
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Let's just say I can't wait for our bachelorette party with all of our 2013 brides!!!!!!!!
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We're both pretty easy-going with this kind of stuff and I think the whole 'last night of freedom' is silly.
ITA! I've always hated when ppl said that. Its like umm no! Even though your not married yet it sure as hell doesn't mean your single!
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Let's just say I can't wait for our bachelorette party with all of our 2013 brides!!!!!!!!
Me toooooooooo!!!!!
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i want to go someplace fun that not a lot of people do. I would love to fly somewhere, but i know that will limit my people.
if we stay in NY I would def do vineyards, hamptons. NO WAY do i want strippers. I think male strippers are NAA-steeee.
FH is going to nashville (so jealous ) i want to go there...
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Let's just say I can't wait for our bachelorette party with all of our 2013 brides!!!!!!!!
what is this?? explain please?? i want to knooooow!
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I think we will end up going to Atlantic City for the bachelorette party. I would love to take a party bus down there. In AC I want to gamble, go to a nightclub and maybe a spa. Knowing my sisters, strippers would be involved somewhere along the way. (If the guys can have their fun so should the girls.) I would like to stay there for two days, but I would be happy with one. I would also love to go to Miami or Vegas, but I'm leaving things up to my girls.
As for FH, he and his friends have been mentioning Vegas for a while. Recently, they mentioned Dominican Republic. I think FH would rather go to Vegas. I'm pretty sure they will hit a strip club. I'm ok with it. I trust FH.
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Posted by JenniBella
Let's just say I can't wait for our bachelorette party with all of our 2013 brides!!!!!!!!
Me toooooooooo!!!!!
It's going to be great!
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I'm so glad that I'm not the only one who is fine with a spa day/weekend and a nice dinner LOL I went to my younger cousin's bachelorette party last year and we bar hopped in the city and it just wasn't 'me'.
Besides doing a spa day/weekend and a nice dinner, I 'd also like to have a zumba party with some of closest friends and bridal party!
As far as a bachelor party, I don't think my FH would do anything crazy. I trust him. His BIL's will be with him and they are both married so I know they will definitely keep out of trouble.
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I actually want to go to Disney but my MOH thinks I am crazy lol. I am also thinking of doing a spa weekend or see a show and a nice dinner in the city. I do not want any strippers...male strippers are gross in my opinion lolol.
I know my FH doesnt want a bachelor party at all but his brother/best man will plan a nice night out anyway lol
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<3 What do you want to do for your bachelorette party? Is there anything you don't want to do??
I would like to do a Limo ride to a restaurant and a great club or lounge.
If I had extra money I would do a weekend trip to Miami, or vegas.
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Posted by JenniBella
Let's just say I can't wait for our bachelorette party with all of our 2013 brides!!!!!!!!
Whoot Whoot!! you girls are crazzzyyy!
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we are going to have a joint one... co ed... i want to go to Lips (drag show)
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Posted by JenniBella
Let's just say I can't wait for our bachelorette party with all of our 2013 brides!!!!!!!!
what is this?? explain please?? i want to knooooow!
We're going to plan a 2013 bach party for us all yay!! I know other years brides have done it. They've also organized bridal showers which I think will be so much fun also! Pretty soon we're going to have to get the ball rolling on this stuff ladies. Bridal shower in Oct.. Bach party in Nov????? Lol
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I have so many ideas but I've narrowed it down to two. I want to have a joint party to celebrate my FH's birthday and our bachelorette/bachelor party. . My entire bridal party will rent a party bus and go to AC. First, we will go to a vineyard (wine tasting) in Atlantic City and eat. Then, we will split up... My girls and I will go to a spa and then they will have a couture lingerie and cupcakes party for me at the hotel to prepare me for my honeymoon After that we will eat and then meet up with the guys at a club with bottle service and dance the night away. My second idea is to have a pole dancing party with an instructor (a friend of mine owns a pole dancing company) and then go out to eat and party afterwards with my girls. Ideally I would like to be dancing the night away in Vegas or sipping Mojito's in Miami but some of my girls can't afford that. I have 8 bridesmaids and 8 groomsmen :)
