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Happy Thursday Ladies!!!

So this has been something on my mind for a while and What a great way to ask but now!!

<3 What do you want to do for your bachelorette party? Is there anything you don't want to do??

What are you most comfortable and uncomfortable with FH doing?? Also, is there anything you want to do but may not be able to due to money reasons, like a trip to Vegas or anywhere else? <3

I have been so up in the air on what I want to do. First I was thinking of a Spa weekend and stay in NYC and go to a Club or a Rooftop Party-- But being that I am in NYC 5 days a week the thought of coming here for a weekend just annoys me LOL!
So im thinking of going to Atlantic City and go to a Spa during the day and then a club at night. I want to go for 2 nights THat Friday night I want the people who Im closest with there and we will go out to dinner and just do something laid back. Just to spend time with the girls who mean the most to me. My mom and his mom will be included with that too. I think it would be nice for them to spend the night and then on day 2 they can do the Spa thing with us and then head home so we can get wild LOL!!!

As for FH I was so against strip clubs but I really dont care anymore- It just doesnt even faze me anymore and thats thanks to this site and other girls opinions on them on the BHB boards. I hold stuff in and dont talk about it and it boils up inside and Now I learn to say what I feel! Hes been dealing with me when Im so stressed and so annoying that I know in my heart he loves me so much that nothing will happen. You hear all these stories about the Groom hooking up with there Stripper LOL I know he wont.
Im sure hell go to Atlantic City and when he goes there Ill be having my second bachelorette dinner LOL!!!

**~~** I get to pick a New BOTW on Sunday **~~**

I'm not sure what I want for my bachelorette party! Part of me wants to just relax, go to a vineyard... and part of me wants to get buckkkkwild! LOL

I don't want a stripper.. I don't deal well with someone else's junk in my face.

& FH can go to a strip club.. just no touching! I trust him to not do anything crazy! He doesn't usually go to strip clubs so it should be interesting for him. LOL

Believe it or not I've been to all my friends I want to do something very different out of the box as I would say I would love in the afternoon to go to a spa at east wind yes I been there and its great pls they include lunch so cool then go to the winery that's what I would like to do then go out to dinner after

I really don't care to much what the FH does bc I trust him so much and me and his brother been talking bc he has no idea what to do I told him to go atlantic city but FH does not like strippers that's a plus for me lol but I want him to have fun though

We like to party, so as of now the plan is to go to AC for a weekend with my FH and all the guys too. Just like Jenni said, we'll probably do some kind of relaxing spa day before going out. I think we'll prob go off and do seperate things and meet up at the end of the night with the guys.

FH wanted to do Vegas, but I feel bad making people spend the money to fly out there and take off from work, etc. So we decided AC was the alternative. He can do whatever he wants. We've been to strip clubs together before so I mean what's the big deal? lol

Love this question!!!!

Idk what I want to do. I was thinking AC too because I'm sick of going to Mohegan/Foxwoods. I was also thinking Miami would be awesome but idk if all my girls could afford that. I want to take a plane somewhere but it doesn't look like that will be possible whatever we do I told my girls absolutely no strippers. I think theyre gross!

As for FH, I am not worried about him. Him and his friends are such dorks that the last bachelor party they planned for another best friend in the group a couple of months ago was to go to comicon and the San Diego zoo even if he did want to go to a strip club, idc because I trust him with every part of my being

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Posted by torresm

Love this question!!!!

Idk what I want to do. I was thinking AC too because I'm sick of going to Mohegan/Foxwoods. I was also thinking Miami would be awesome but idk if all my girls could afford that. I want to take a plane somewhere but it doesn't look like that will be possible whatever we do I told my girls absolutely no strippers. I think theyre gross!

As for FH, I am not worried about him. Him and his friends are such dorks that the last bachelor party they planned for another best friend in the group a couple of months ago was to go to comicon and the San Diego zoo even if he did want to go to a strip club, idc because I trust him with every part of my being

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I FKN LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bobby and I were thinking a joint party in AC...we all go on a limo bus but the girls go to a different hotel/casino for spa, dinner and a club and the guys go somewhere else. I hope they go see strippers or else I'm sure they would hate it if they didn't. I dont care if he gets a private lap dance or whatever...we laugh about it. We see worst when we go to Jamaica so who cares? The FH's aren't going to do anything so stupid right before the wedding.

To be honest I'd have fun going to a tea party or something cute for my b-party. I have clubbed so so so much in my life that I really don't mind if I never step into one again. LOL

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Posted by torresm

Love this question!!!!

Idk what I want to do. I was thinking AC too because I'm sick of going to Mohegan/Foxwoods. I was also thinking Miami would be awesome but idk if all my girls could afford that. I want to take a plane somewhere but it doesn't look like that will be possible whatever we do I told my girls absolutely no strippers. I think theyre gross!

As for FH, I am not worried about him. Him and his friends are such dorks that the last bachelor party they planned for another best friend in the group a couple of months ago was to go to comicon and the San Diego zoo even if he did want to go to a strip club, idc because I trust him with every part of my being

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LMAO last year was my first Comicon and I loved it! Met the funniest people and my son dressed as Hulk and loved it too! Bobby and his brothers are comicon dorks too! HA!

My friends and FSIL's really want to go away to Jamaica or something like that that for a weekend...so if all works out that;s where we will go!!

FH wants to go to Vegas but him and his friends are such bad planners so idk if they will ever get the ball rolling on that one!! I'm really not to concerned about whet he does...I really just want him to have fun!

Wow... so many of your ideas sound like so much fun. I love the ideas of Atlantic City and the Spas.

My girls will be coming in from all over the US - San Diego, Seattle, Orlando, Chicago, and Western MA primarily, only a few from LI - so, I probably won't be having a bachelorette until the night before my wedding.

So.. because its the night before the big day, it will probably be kept small and local. I don't really have many ideas for a way to have fun and catch up for a few hours the night before a wedding - when I don't want to be hung over *sigh*

As for FH - He's in the same scenerio. I hope FH won't go to a strip club or hire a stripper. It's not that I don't trust him... It's just the fact I sort of hate what they stand for, etc.

(edited, because I forgot the part about FH - oops)

I dont even want to think about it. I was told by one of my MOH we were going to New Orleans. Then i brought it up again and she said well i want to go there for my 30th birthday instead. She turns 30 a month before my wedding. I dont want to sound selfish but i dont want to combine the celebrations. i really wanted the one night to be about me. (i know what i sound like, but i am always sharing and I really didnt want to share for this situation) I dunno. maybe ill bring it up or have someone bring it up again and see what happens.

FH has been saying even before we were engaged that he is going to Iceland for his Bach party. then we got engaged and he told everyone to get their passports! His one good friend lives there and his other lives in Sweden so he was trying to get them involved somehow. Plus who wouldn't want to go to Iceland?!?!?! Its apparently really cheap there bc they are in such an economic turmoil.

I already told my girls I want to do a vineyard tour out east with a limo (so no one has to worry). After that, I just want to go to a nice dinner - I'll already be nice and drunk so I won't need to go out and party that night

As for FH, I already told him to do whatever and to have fun. I grabbed his BM (his younger brother) and threatened his life if he brought a stripper into a hotel room for them But I know him & all the other guys, a stripper is probably the farthest thing from their minds lol. Honestly, they'll probably go out to see a band play and have some drinks. Plus, his brother loves me and already calls me sis so I doubt he'd do anything to tick me off

FH and I are having a joint party wknd in Vegas! We love it there plus we figured since we got engaged in Vegas it would be cute to have our bach parties there.

We are going to invite all our friends and BP. Whoever can make it we'll all hang out the wknd chillin by the pool, sight seeing, maybe some shows. 1 night the boys will go out on their own thing and us girls will do the same.

Idc if FH goes to a strip club but I dont want him to touch or get any lap dances. No boobs n a$$ in his face I told him! Lol.. I know he doesnt want a male stripper putting his junk in my face so same goes for him! Lol

We'll prob do this about 2 months b4 the wedding. Maybe the wknd or so b4 the wedding whoever cldnt make it to Vegas (as well as those who did) Id like to go out to dinner and maybe a lounge in the city.

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Posted by Soon2BMrsB2013

I dont even want to think about it. I was told by one of my MOH we were going to New Orleans. Then i brought it up again and she said well i want to go there for my 30th birthday instead. She turns 30 a month before my wedding. I dont want to sound selfish but i dont want to combine the celebrations. i really wanted the one night to be about me. (i know what i sound like, but i am always sharing and I really didnt want to share for this situation) I dunno. maybe ill bring it up or have someone bring it up again and see what happens.

FH has been saying even before we were engaged that he is going to Iceland for his Bach party. then we got engaged and he told everyone to get their passports! His one good friend lives there and his other lives in Sweden so he was trying to get them involved somehow. Plus who wouldn't want to go to Iceland?!?!?! Its apparently really cheap there bc they are in such an economic turmoil.

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Well, now that one of my BMs is planning on getting married right around the same time as me I'm most likely going to end up sharing my day as well. Which sucks, because I feel I should get the attention for one damn day without someone trying to steal my thunder (i think we are all entitled to this for ONE day). I also, feel bad for the rest of the people in my wedding party that they will need to shell out $ for another wedding and another bach party, etc. *sigh* what are ya going to do

I'm thinking along the same lines of more low key.. definitley looking into doing a vineyards tour, or possibly going over to Fire Island for a night or two!
FH wants Atlantic City :)

my parents have a house upstate, so right now my BMs and I are trying to find a weekend for just us to go. We have a lake, there's hikes that lead to waterfalls or ledges that overlook delaware river. No cell service so it's just us in our sweats, cooking, gabbing etc!
We still want to a party with everyone though but idk what!!! Maybe DJ Chef? Maybe Lucky Changs?

I normally dont care about FH going to strip clubs but for his own bach party, not so much. They ALWAYS go after the groom-to-be and the guys egg it on, no matter what he says. He doesn't want to put himself in that situation so he kinda stole my cabin trip idea and he may do AC too

Most of my bridal party is out of state so this might be hard. I am thinking about newport or boston for the weekend including spa day, game night, and maybe a nice dinner out and a club??I am not into strip clubs, so i def do not want anyones junk in my face. I just want those closest to me together for a few days.

Fh will prob end up in vegas. the stripper thing doesnt bother me, i know he is coming home to me, as long as he gets rid of the stripper dust and skank smell before he enters my house we are good!

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Posted by MommaMia
as long as he gets rid of the stripper dust and skank smell before he enters my house we are good!

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HAHA This exactly!

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Posted by MommaMia

Fh will prob end up in vegas. the stripper thing doesnt bother me, i know he is coming home to me, as long as he gets rid of the stripper dust and skank smell before he enters my house we are good!

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