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<3 QUESTION OF THE DAY 3/29/11 <3

CantWaitMrsH Posted:

<3 QUESTION OF THE DAY 3/29/11 <3

Good morning my brides to be! I hope you all had some wonderful rest. I personally went to bed way too late and then awoke when future hubby was ransacking the closet to find his work attire ... which of course got me thinking. While that was not the best wake up call I started to think about all the amazing things future hubby does for me. The silly, romantic, thoughtful things ... perhaps which I needed to since I was a total crank pot being woken up.

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Onto today's question ... What does future hubby do/has done that is just too sweet? That shows you chivalry isnt dead? That perhaps showed you he was the one? Or that might make us other 2011 girls swoon with envy?

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For me, future hubby does so many little things it would be hard to list them all. Packs me a lunch (even with snacks) when a long day awaits, wipes off my car before he leaves in the morning if its snowy ... But what stands out the most was when I was diagnosed about 2 years ago with Lyme Disease - unfortunately right when we reconnected. It was a beyond difficult time for me and at times continues to be a struggle. People really dont understand what it can do to you body for it varies from person to person. I was diagnosed with chronic lyme after take a number of families raising autistic children camping ... it changed my life forever.

Amidst various medical appointments and testing, future hubby wanted to take me to the mall. After all, Ann Taylor Loft lifts the spirits even if momentarily! I had lost entire control of my right leg from the hip to the knee - it was completely numb. I was dizzy and lightheaded all the time. It was horrific. Without prompting, future hubby parked the car right in front of the door, helped me walk to a bench and sat me down while he parked the car. It was such a simple gesture, but one I will never forget. He never made me feel badly when I couldnt walk too fast or couldnt spend time with either of our friends. He knew just how much I wanted to be there. People who had been a part of my life for *years* couldnt understand, but without hesitation future hubby did. I knew then just how much I was going to love this boy

Talk about 'in sickness and in health'! Which btw, WONT be a part of our vows. I would be HYSTERICAL!
Tromsugar2b Posted:

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awww, he sounds like such a good guy!!


letss seee my FH ( i guess this is the military in him) but I love that he never complains about anything i ask him to do, like I ask him to take the dog out and he just does, or remind him that today he was supposed to fix my car (in the freezing cold) and he doesn't say a word he just goes and does it. And hes very considerate he'll ask me if I want to do something with him and if i say im too tired or i dont feel like it he doesn't get mad or annoyed hes just like 'okay baby you take a nap'. Haha and once again probably comes from the military...but I love that he is such a protector he has stopped me from getting hurt a bunch of times and I always feel really safe when hes around and not just psychologically lol! He has done so many sweet things i couldn't even begin to try and name them its just his overall personality...he pretty much lets me get away with murder and will do anything to make me happy on a daily basis, he is definitely very chivalrous in that way!
MrsTarricone2B Posted:

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Awww your FH sounds like a sweet heart!!!

Honestly, there is so much FH does for me - I'm a lucky girl! The biggest thing (to me) is that he cleans the house every Saturday while I'm at work. He also does the dishes (loads the dishwasher! lol) after I cook and he does all the laundry. He cleans my car off in the morning if it snows. He sends me flowers for birthdays, anniversaries and Valentine's Day. He opens the door for me. He tells me he loves me out of nowhere. I could probably keep going but I'll end it there lol.
CantWaitMrsH Posted:

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Posted by MrsTarricone2B

Awww your FH sounds like a sweet heart!!!

Honestly, there is so much FH does for me - I'm a lucky girl! The biggest thing (to me) is that he cleans the house every Saturday while I'm at work. He also does the dishes (loads the dishwasher! lol) after I cook and he does all the laundry. He cleans my car off in the morning if it snows. He sends me flowers for birthdays, anniversaries and Valentine's Day. He opens the door for me. He tells me he loves me out of nowhere. I could probably keep going but I'll end it there lol.



Awww I love the 'I love you' out of nowhere!
Jennielee15 Posted:

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To be honest FH wouldn't know romance if it hit him in the head! Haha! The big thing he does do that makes me so proud to be his woman is that he knows when I need space and when I need smothering! My mom has been sick most of my life and FH has always known how to handle things when I'm Freaking out! Once he bought me a plane ticket and got of on a plane in the matter of an hour because we didn't know if my mom would make it through the night. He may not be the most romantic guy or do any of the little things but He's always there when I need him the most! He's dependable! He even told of several times that if for some reason my mom can't make it he will fly us to Alaska for a second ceremony for my mom.
Chanwich Posted:

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FH does anything I ask him to, even if he hates it! He knows I HATE cleaning so a lot of times he will clean before I get up and I wake up to all the dishes being done and stuff put away.

He also randomly brings me flowers at least once a month and leaves me love notes in the morning when he leaves for work
IrishLilly Posted:

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SO SWEET!

I also must say I am a very lucky girl. FH is so good to me. He does all those things just to make my life easier, or to help in the morning as I am rushing to work, like making my coffee, or pulling up my car. He also cooks Every night. One, he's just much better at it lol, and Two, he enjoys it. It's really such a treat to come home and not have to worry about what Im going to make.
But what sticks out the most is this: My parents had a bad house fire last mothers day. When my family was going through the worst time he remained calm and supportive. He was the strength my father needed when he was losting it all and the back bone for all of us.
It's been 10 months and we just got them back in their house. He has been there nights and weekends and never a complaint. We only got enganged this christmas but after the fire is when I knew that not only was he the one for me but one of the family too.
AudioLoveStory Posted:

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The sweetest thing FH did for me recently was when I went away to my dad's house for the weekend and he couldn't come with me, he packed little notes all throughout my suitcase. One in my snowboot, one in my computer, one in my son's goodnight turtle. 'I miss you already.' 'Have fun!' 'Love you so much!' etc.

It made me smile each time I found one.

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