35 days left to go and still 60 ......

We still have 60 people that have not RSVP'd. UGHH!!!!! I just had to let out some steam!!!

Lets see, my RSVP date was just Mar 22- 4 days ago, Im still getting some even today!! and have about 15 people to go- what is wrong with people- these same people RSVP'd for my shower there was a mail in RSVP for that too no phone call but still waiting on the more important RSVP , LOL

Found out that some people never mailed in the RSVP for the shower and just RSVP'd to the wedding. I can not believe some people. The majority of them are married and I doubt they remember what they went through. When I get an invitation to anything I try and mail it back within 1-2 weeks. UGH...Atleast I am not the only person going through this. THanks

Tuesday is our cut off date..... if we dont have the remaining responses we will call those people because we have to make up tables and hand in the final count..... i MYSELF will call them after that and tell them how rude they are and tell them too bad so sad they are NOT WELCOME anymore!!!!
okay maybe i went off on a rampage BUT how annoying
we are going to make calls on Wednesday

We also have many responses not returned. I feel like if you dont want to come, then dont.

I just want to start these place cards, but everyday the tables change.

I'm sorry for the added stress. People are just clueless as to how stressful this is for the bride.
People told me not to do it but this is why I had an rsvp date two months before the wedding. My wedding is a week after school ends (hs teacher) so I knew I would be super busy grading exams in June.

I hope they all come. If not, have someone call them and say 'if we don't here from you in 24 hours we are putting you down as a no'

Good luck. Sorry for the stress

That is my plan. I actually gave the list of family members on my FH's side that have not responded to my future MIL and she said 'Well, I am not calling them before the due date and I do not have their numbers anyway.' I felt like saying....well, get them. What does she expect us to do? Just hold open the seats for */*/ of it. Ugh...You can tell I am fed up with some family members on my FH's side. What ever will be, will be. If I have to I'll write a note and say 'tough cookies, but you'll be missing out on one of the best weddings of the year!'