4 months to go - changing my BP! sorry so long

Original post by ant n tilde

Sep 16, 2007 02:32 PM

LOL
Okay as I have posted MANY MANY times my brother and sister were not in my BP - they are almost 40 and have their own kids and I didn't want to burden them with my wedding

I have posted MANY times about how it doesnt matter that they arent in it bc they know they are important parts of my life and they dont need a title to show that

well, as the day gets closer i realized, that the reason i was so adament about all that is bc i felt guilty not having them in it and i couldnt picture my wedding day without them there! I mean, they were talking about going home btw the church and reception like regular guests!

so i went dress shopping with my sister yesterday adn i realized that i was saving her NO money - i mean she is my sister so she is participating in my shower and bachelorette party. . . she has been dress shopping, shoe shopping and vendor shopping with me - and she has to buy a dress ANYWAY so REALLY it was pointless to not have her in it!

So this morning at 5AM I woke up FH after tossing and turning all night about this and I asked if I could have my brother and sister in the BP and he said of course!

I called my sister this morning and at first she said no bc she knew i had everything all settled but then she said yes and she was really happy! I still have to call my brother though

i feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders - i am really excited! I didnt even realize how stressed i have been!!!!

kristi313 Posted: Sep 16, 2007 11:53 PM

Re: 4 months to go - changing my BP! sorry so long

good for you! i think that's a great decision

angl2001 Posted: Sep 17, 2007 12:11 AM

Re: 4 months to go - changing my BP! sorry so long

oh thats great!!!! i know how you felt from reading your other posts!!! glad it worked out!

CNC4eva3402 Posted: Sep 17, 2007 12:31 AM

Re: 4 months to go - changing my BP! sorry so long

YAY!!!!

Did your mom say 'I told you so' yet?!? hehe

ant n tilde Posted: Sep 17, 2007 07:52 AM

Re: 4 months to go - changing my BP! sorry so long

Posted by CNC4eva3402

YAY!!!!

Did your mom say 'I told you so' yet?!? hehe

i dont think she has said anything ELSE in the past 24 hours but in her little sneaky ways of course never coming right out and saying it!!

i asked my brother last night and he actually said he was tempted to say No so that way my mother wouldn't feel like she 'won' yet

but of course he said yes!!

AND he was going to get a tuxedo ANYWAY so again, i wasn't saving anyone the money!