And I haven't spoke to FH all day. He had his Christmas party last night... fine. I went to bed at 1:45 and he still wasn't home. He goes to bed at 4:30!!!! I wake up all pissed off. He was so drunk and his story changed 3 times. Anyways... we haven't talked all day. So happy anniversary to us!
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Congratulations and awww don't let that bring you down
SoontobeMrsH
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FH went to the Ranger game , came home drunk, & went right to I was soo , we didn't evenlight the menorah, I was waiting for him, but I guess I just got over it, b/c there are times whenI come home drunk & just wanna crash too...
Sorry about this on your 5 1/2 yr anniversary, & Congrats
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Yeah I know... it'll be ok. But boy is there gonna be tension tonight!!! This morning he finally got up the nerve to ask me to go to lunch and I just didn't respond. I'm in need of a major apology. A phone call a simple phone call would've been nice. And he even went so far as to say if this is what married life is gonna be like he don't want it. But a Christmas party from 7 to 2 am???? Come on now....
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Yeah I know... it'll be ok. But boy is there gonna be tension tonight!!! This morning he finally got up the nerve to ask me to go to lunch and I just didn't respond. I'm in need of a major apology. A phone call a simple phone call would've been nice. And he even went so far as to say if this is what married life is gonna be like he don't want it. But a Christmas party from 7 to 2 am???? Come on now....
Maybe he & some friends went to a bar afterwards?
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Supposedly.. when I asked what bar it was 'I don't remember.' Am I being b*tchy PMSy or would you be mad too?
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Yeah I know... it'll be ok. But boy is there gonna be tension tonight!!! This morning he finally got up the nerve to ask me to go to lunch and I just didn't respond. I'm in need of a major apology. A phone call a simple phone call would've been nice. And he even went so far as to say if this is what married life is gonna be like he don't want it. But a Christmas party from 7 to 2 am???? Come on now....
not sticking up for him at all, but my job we had our x-mas this past friday. I left at 9 after the dinner bc i had to wake up early the next day but most of the people at work went out after and partied until late, around the same time actually.
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Supposedly.. when I asked what bar it was 'I don't remember.' Am I being b*tchy PMSy or would you be mad too?
a couple of us went to abar before the party bc we got there early, we just walked into the bar right by the place and honestly i couldn't tell you the name of it. I know how that feels though and it ***** to hear things like that, just trying to smooth things over and show that sometimes it does happen even when it sounds bad
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Yeah I know... it'll be ok. But boy is there gonna be tension tonight!!! This morning he finally got up the nerve to ask me to go to lunch and I just didn't respond. I'm in need of a major apology. A phone call a simple phone call would've been nice. And he even went so far as to say if this is what married life is gonna be like he don't want it. But a Christmas party from 7 to 2 am???? Come on now....
not sticking up for him at all, but my job we had our x-mas this past friday. I left at 9 after the dinner bc i had to wake up early the next day but most of the people at work went out after and partied until late, around the same time actually.
Yeah... that's all good, but a Tuesday night. And I hate that 'I don't remember sh*t.' Unless you're really bombed.... you can remember a couple of hours ago.... Last year he was home at 11:30, this year 4:30???? Makes no sense.
Collweenie21
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Don't get me wrong... I trust him and all. But a call is all I ask for.
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Don't get me wrong... I trust him and all. But a call is all I ask for.
honestly I wouldn't have spoke to him all day if this were the case, & I'd expect an apology for him being so inconsiderate... That's the treatment FH rec'd when this happend, years ago after we first moved in together
& I was such a cranky angry momma this mornign re: last night
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Don't get me wrong... I trust him and all. But a call is all I ask for.
I know, just trying to help the situation out. I agree he should have at least called, that would get me mad too.
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Don't get me wrong... I trust him and all. But a call is all I ask for.
honestly I wouldn't have spoke to him all day if this were the case, & I'd expect an apology for him being so inconsiderate... That's the treatment FH rec'd when this happend, years ago after we first moved in together
& I was such a cranky angry momma this mornign re: last night
I hate men... lol.
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Don't get me wrong... I trust him and all. But a call is all I ask for.
honestly I wouldn't have spoke to him all day if this were the case, & I'd expect an apology for him being so inconsiderate... That's the treatment FH rec'd when this happend, years ago after we first moved in together
& I was such a cranky angry momma this mornign re: last night
I hate men... lol.
Girl my FH has now developed the not calling thing too.
Collweenie21
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i am putting a stop to this not calling thing NOW!!!
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id castrate him!!!... i dont mind if hes out.. i just need to know whats going on.. if its over at 10 and u dont walk in till 2.. then where were u??? and if u have nothing to hide then u can tell me.. thats how i feel.. if i give u the courtesy of a phone call then i deserve that in return.. dont feel bad.. FH does this to me all the time he makes me sooo mad!
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And I haven't spoke to FH all day. He had his Christmas party last night... fine. I went to bed at 1:45 and he still wasn't home. He goes to bed at 4:30!!!! I wake up all pissed off. He was so drunk and his story changed 3 times. Anyways... we haven't talked all day. So happy anniversary to us!
Aw hun!!! I know how you feel... He ruined our anniversary by telling me he was going to bring me into the city, to bringing me to Applebees and gettin beers... I was livid... Still am because I wanted to see the tree.. Guys are morons.. They don't realize that the little things matter...