From today I'll be Mrs. Rufle! I am freaking out! I have sooo much left to do and I am at the point where I am so done with planning and I just want to get it all over with already! Am I wrong for feeling this way??? Every single aspect of my life is changing right now and I'm freaking out ( We are about to close on our house, I've never lived on my own before, I am going into a new job in less than a month, and I still have a million things to do for the wedding!) All I keep doing is randomly crying because I'm so stressed and I think FH is starting to think I'm nuts!
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That is a lot of changes all at once so I think feeling this stressed is competely normal. Just try and keep thinking that they are all GREAT and exciting changes!!! Everything will work out just as its supposed to!!! Keep thinking of all the posititves!!!
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don't stress! everything will be fine! it is a lot of change, but all for the best!
take 1 thing at a time with wedding planning! you're almost done!
FutureMRS.Benn
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Woo Hoo!!!
FutureJOC
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Don't stress out.... I'm sure you will get everything that needs to be done in time. Just start making a list of the things you need to get done and tackle one thing at a time and try not to focus on anything else until that task is done and then move onto the next one. If you try and take on too much at one time you'll drive yourself crazy.
On a side note, congrats on the 5 months!
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dont stress hun......this is all GOOD news, even GREAT news,,, and yes its stress but its good stress. you guys are getting ahouse, getting married these are all good things.
dont stress about the house, you will get it done, have a painting party have your friends come over and help you get it done, it will all work out
very happy for you....
congrats on 5 months
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5 months! You're so close! I know it's stressful having everything happen at the same time, but afterwards it's going to be soooooooo worth it! And if you have time to take a weekend to just relax away from it all, I'd say do it!
J79
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just think HONEYMOON
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Posted by FutureMrsRufle2011
From today I'll be Mrs. Rufle! I am freaking out! I have sooo much left to do and I am at the point where I am so done with planning and I just want to get it all over with already! Am I wrong for feeling this way??? Every single aspect of my life is changing right now and I'm freaking out ( We are about to close on our house, I've never lived on my own before, I am going into a new job in less than a month, and I still have a million things to do for the wedding!) All I keep doing is randomly crying because I'm so stressed and I think FH is starting to think I'm nuts!
I am right there with you. 5 months is no time and I have so much to do. My life is so all over the place right now that sometimes I cant see how i am going to pull this wedding together.
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you have a lot on your plate right now and it's normal to feel stressed out, but just keep in mind that it will all be worth it in the end.
FutureMrsRufle2011
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I know its normal to be stressed out over everything. Thanks for all your support, it really helps knowing that we are all going through the same thing together! I wish I was going on a honeymoon, but that was one of my things that FH said that I would have to give up in order to have a house. Hopefully that will change last minute if we find more $$$$$$!
