9/27 girls whats left

i have a ton:

menu's
place cards
programs
a lot of DIY projects for details
dress fittings
need to customize ceremony with officiant

and too many more to list...time is ticking away!

Ugh! I just made the whole list and then it didn't post. Grrr.

I still have...
invites
flowers
CPs
dress fitting
MOH dress
tuxes
shoes
veil
DOJ
programs
menus
place cards
card box
pick out music (we don't even have a 1st dance song)
transportation
dance lessons?
hair trial
find make-up person
make-up trial
small DIY projects
finish registering
sign with officiant (mine dropped out)
create menu
honeymoon

And probably some other stuff too!

I know I am forgetting some things, but I know i still need to do the below.....

1st fitting on 7/29
Hair trail 8/10
Meet with florist to see sample centerpeice
Meet with Watermill to go over menu and other details
Meet with DJ to finalize music
Get marragie license
Do OTT bags
Get bags/paper for bridal party gifts
Pick out reading for the ceremony

I really have to start working on my tan soon as I have not gotten to the beach as much as I would've like too yet......i feel like every weekend we are crazy busy!!!

i know its nuts. My tan is pretty pathetic. I think music is what is driving me most crazy.

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Posted by shcole08

i know its nuts. My tan is pretty pathetic. I think music is what is driving me most crazy.

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anything in particular about the music or just all of it?

the only part of music that is driving me nuts is trying to find a song to dance with my father i'm not close with him, but thought it would be nice to do the father/daughter dance so trying to find something that isn't mushy is difficult.

I'm 9/26 but heck.....lol!

Um....

Bridal Party Gifts
Wedding Cake details
Tuxedo's for guys
Thank you notes for Shower and Wedding
Hair / Jewelry Accessories
Fittings
DJ finalizing
Florist finalizing
Menu Printing
Marriage License
Passport (if you need one)
Haircut Soon!!!

I guess I should add all of the things the rest of you put too! Although in the last few days we booked a photographer, DJ, officiant and 'almost' finished the invites.

And they said I couldn't plan a wedding in three months!!!

I have to:

meet again with the florist about the CP's
help FH pick a tux
get BP gifts
arrange RD (we're having one now)
take engagement pics
start gown fittings
buy shoes (changed my mind again)
pick up veil in August
have final meeting with priest regarding ceremony
apply for marriage license
work on menus
work on place cards
finish programs
give dj must play list
book mini-moon
start tanning
dance lessons -- need them
pick father/daughter song
pick cake cutting song
finish all favors (have two)

I'm probably missing something but I'm rocking and rolling over here!!!

Try not to freak ....

I have tasting monday night
hopefully final fitting Tuesday night
steam/clean dress
place cards
menus
programs
my mom needs a dress
buy votives
favors
finalize make up
hair trial
buy hair piece (found it already)
memorial candles for our dads
get nantucket baskets for our cp
Marriage license
..i think that is it

Oh & I am pretty sure it is going to pir next weekend !!!

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Posted by shcole08

when are you going for your marriage license?

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The Marriage License
Where do you get one?
A couple who intends to be married in New York State must apply in person for a marriage license to any town or city clerk in the state. The application for a license must be signed by both the bride and groom in the presence of the town or city clerk. A representative cannot apply for the license on behalf of the bride or groom. This applies even if the representative has been given the Power of Attorney. Notarized marriage license affidavits signed by the bride or groom cannot be substituted for their personal appearance.

Is there a waiting period?
Yes. Although the marriage license is issued immediately, the marriage ceremony may not take place within 24 hours from the exact time that the license was issued. When both applicants are 16 years of age or older, the 24-hour waiting period may be waived by an order of a justice of the Supreme Court or a judge of the County Court of the county in which either the bride or groom resides. If either person is under 16 years of age, the order must be from the Family Court judge of the county in which the person under 16 years of age resides.

How long is the license valid?
A marriage license is valid for 60 days, beginning the day after it is issued.

How much does it cost?
If the marriage license is issued by a town or city clerk in New York State outside of New York City, it costs $40. This fee includes the issuance of a Certificate of Marriage Registration. This certificate is automatically sent by the issuing clerk to the applicants within 15 days after the completed license is returned by the officiant (person who performs the marriage ceremony). It serves as notice that a record of the marriage is on file. Couples who do not receive a Certificate of Marriage Registration within four weeks of the wedding should contact the town or city clerk who issued the license.

If the license is to be issued by the City Clerk of the City of New York, please contact the New York City Clerk's Office for current fees and requirements. The City Clerk's Office can be reached at (212) 669-2400 or via their web site at New York City Marriage Bureau.