A bit of a PG-13 rated question (with POLL)

Original post by diamondgrlie

Mar 09, 2005 02:52 PM

I was wondering if anyone was considering going topless on their HM.
We are going to Aruba and I heard there are alot of Europeans that don't think twice about going topless on the beach.
I am considering taking on the attitude of 'when in Rome...'

What do you gals think?

ETA: I think I worded this wrong. I was polling to see if you girls are planning to go topless not if I should...

LoriH Posted: Mar 09, 2005 05:06 PM

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Go for it!!

MrsA814 Posted: Mar 09, 2005 09:31 PM

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i would go for it if everyone else is doing it

jbride2b Posted: Mar 09, 2005 09:37 PM

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Posted by SomethingBlu

My fi wouldn't let me...he's jealous that way! But seriously, I couldn't, way too shy!

Exacly the same here!

azoodie Posted: Mar 09, 2005 09:57 PM

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i'll do it if i want some privacy with ray....me topless is a surefire way to clear the beach!

Jamie&MarkSept.'05 Posted: Mar 09, 2005 10:13 PM

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I am a little put off by the option to answer 'I'd have to ask DH'...I am sorry but I don't need FH's permission to do anything!!!

He is not the boss of me!

JMHO

With that said...

I don't think I could go topless...I think I would be too self-conscious even if other people were topless..

Butterflybride Posted: Mar 09, 2005 10:16 PM

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If I had the body, then heck yeah! I'm self-conscious enough in a bathing suit though. I don't need the added pressure

dita531 Posted: Mar 10, 2005 09:37 AM

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I have no problem with it but FH doesn't want me to.

melissaandsean Posted: Mar 10, 2005 09:53 AM

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I'd totally go for it if I had the body :D

IrishBride-05 Posted: Mar 10, 2005 09:58 AM

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I used to when I went on vacation in Europe, but I was younger then. I always had certain rules for topless sunbathing I wouldn't do it now as I'm about 15 years older!!!

jesslangen Posted: Mar 10, 2005 10:00 AM

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I, personally, am a I shy gal. I'll keep the topless idea in the privacy of my own backyard

diamondgrlie Posted: Mar 10, 2005 10:07 AM

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Posted by Jamie&MarkSept.'05

I am a little put off by the option to answer 'I'd have to ask DH'...I am sorry but I don't need FH's permission to do anything!!!

He is not the boss of me!
QUOTE]

Right... but on your HM do you really want to get into a fight about it? What if you wanted to and he didnt want you to? Me personally, I respect his opinion and if he was too jealous, I wouldnt want to make him upset ESPECIALLY on the HM.

Jamie&MarkSept.'05 Posted: Mar 10, 2005 10:11 AM

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Posted by diamondgrlie

Posted by Jamie&MarkSept.'05

I am a little put off by the option to answer 'I'd have to ask DH'...I am sorry but I don't need FH's permission to do anything!!!

He is not the boss of me!
QUOTE]

Right... but on your HM do you really want to get into a fight about it? What if you wanted to and he didnt want you to? Me personally, I respect his opinion and if he was too jealous, I wouldnt want to make him upset ESPECIALLY on the HM.

I think you unfairly quoted me...I said I wouldn't feel comfortable going topless anyways after writing the part you posted.

How are we going to get into a fight about me not going topless?

brooklynbridezilla Posted: Mar 10, 2005 10:13 AM

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I have never been anywhere where it is appropriate, but I would definitely do it.

diamondgrlie Posted: Mar 10, 2005 10:14 AM

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Posted by Jamie&MarkSept.'05

Posted by diamondgrlie

Posted by Jamie&MarkSept.'05

I am a little put off by the option to answer 'I'd have to ask DH'...I am sorry but I don't need FH's permission to do anything!!!

He is not the boss of me!
QUOTE]

Right... but on your HM do you really want to get into a fight about it? What if you wanted to and he didnt want you to? Me personally, I respect his opinion and if he was too jealous, I wouldnt want to make him upset ESPECIALLY on the HM.

I think you unfairly quoted me...I said I wouldn't feel comfortable going topless anyways after writing the part you posted.

How are we going to get into a fight about me not going topless?

This wasnt towards your answer about not going topless but your problem with asking your new husband if he minds or not, thats all.

buckles Posted: Mar 10, 2005 10:27 AM

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If I were going somewhere where I could go topless I would. I know it would probably drive FH crazy so that would be too much fun!

FH and I are going to East Africa for our honeymoon which is a Muslim nation they don't want women showing their thighs or elbows let alone there boobies!

brooklynbridezilla Posted: Mar 10, 2005 10:29 AM

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Posted by buckles

If I were going somewhere where I could go topless I would. I know it would probably drive FH crazy so that would be too much fun!

FH and I are going to East Africa for our honeymoon which is a Muslim nation they don't want women showing their thighs or elbows let alone there boobies!

That sounds cool! What made you decide on Africa- I remember you mentioning Fiji?

Jamie&MarkSept.'05 Posted: Mar 10, 2005 10:31 AM

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I think you unfairly quoted me...I said I wouldn't feel comfortable going topless anyways after writing the part you posted.

How are we going to get into a fight about me not going topless?

This wasnt towards your answer about not going topless but your problem with asking your new husband if he minds or not, thats all.

All I was saying is that I was a bit put off by the idea of asking FH's 'permission'...I am not trying to cause drama, and I would never do anything to offend or hurt FH, but I also do not feel the need to ask his permission if there is something that I want to do.

diamondgrlie Posted: Mar 10, 2005 10:39 AM

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Posted by Jamie&MarkSept.'05

All I was saying is that I was a bit put off by the idea of asking FH's 'permission'...I am not trying to cause drama, and I would never do anything to offend or hurt FH, but I also do not feel the need to ask his permission if there is something that I want to do.

Ok then, lets agree to disagree.

Jamie&MarkSept.'05 Posted: Mar 10, 2005 10:40 AM

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No problem!

o17range Posted: Mar 10, 2005 11:35 AM

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I think FH would LOVE for me to go topless...having said that, I wouldn't ever do that....just too shy. Diamondgirlie--just remember we'll see you (maybe a lot of you) your last 2 days on the Island!